I’m starting with something offtopic before I introduce my main point. Being a Goddess in BDSM is an honorific I chose carefully.
If you’d like to read about that specifically, look at the Table of Contents. To understand my reasoning behind this post, keep reading from here.
“Ice Queen” Isn’t My Style, but I Love Verbal Humiliation
I have issues publicly expressing my favorite kink: verbal humiliation.
It doesn’t make me uncomfortable to call a submissive man a desperate cum-eating cuckslut. Cutting at the core of a man’s insecurity is a regular Tuesday for me.
Those words flow from my lips like water.
Let me explain.
I don’t enjoy expressing my verbal humiliation kink on social media.
I’m sure that many subs are into no mercy, always “on” Bitch Queens (I say so endearingly, I love them~).
But, it doesn’t bring me any pleasure to 1.) Give away free kink, and 2.) be rude in a social media setting with non-consenting parties.
With zero context, it feels icky. Plus, negative attention breeds more negativity. I am not trying to attract trolls and other mean people. My goal is to make myself known to the submissive men in this world who crave the chance to please a Goddess.
Overall, the way that I present myself on social media and my blog is professional, approachable, and generally “nice”.
It’s easy to misinterpret my public personality. In private, my ability to be a “mean Domme” is a shock to some.
Being publicly rude, mean, or bitchy isn’t my cup of tea. Does that make me bad at verbal humiliation? Nope, lol.
(He ate his cum out of the trash can and recorded it, btw. I sent him an audio laughing and calling him a disgusting trashcum eating bitch. So much fun~)
Back to the subject at hand-
I find it hard to be rude or mean on public posts. It genuinely makes me uncomfortable. The downside is, submissives have trouble understanding that I will fuck them up in private.
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What’s the solution?
*shrug* I won’t do anything that makes me uncomfortable. I’ll simply do what feels right in the moment.
Being polite and showing basic respect is how I move. Unfortunately, I get the occasional bratty sub who wants to test the limits of my Southern hospitality. They never expect the hammer to meet the puny little thumbtack with such precision.
My Point: Don’t Overlook the Sweet-Looking Dommes
Encouraging “Worship” and “Adoration” is difficult to pair with the forceful nature of verbal humiliation. Until I find time a way to blend the two, I’ll take the classic “mean Domme” approach sparingly.
My looks will trick you, though.
You’ll think that you’re safe. Did you just find the warm, caring Mommy Domme of your dreams? She’s going to wrap you up and treat you like her subby good boy, right?
😉
I chose the “Goddess” honorific carefully, and you will respect that.
Mommy is *okay*. The implications make me laugh.
Succubus, Seductress, Demon, Goddess; yes.
The first sub who ever called me Mistress made me physically flinch. (Why would I want to be “the other woman”? There is zero value in that. Plus, think about the implications of calling a black woman “Mistress”. Eugh.)
But, the first one who called me Goddess opened my eyes. I dove down the rabbithole, and decided that it was the perfect honorific to describe myself.
[A quick stray from the topic:
I spent a long time letting subs approach me without explicitly offering FemDom. I’ve always been a switch, but I wasn’t ready to dive into Female Domination. So, I let them call me whatever they wanted for a while.
This was my way of testing my limits, boundaries, and coming to a conclusion.
That’s why you’ll hear me say, “The subs chose me. I didn’t decide to be a full-blown Domme for years, not until I was ready. But, they sensed my Dominance nonetheless.”]
My Meaning Behind the FemDom Goddess Honorific
It’s obvious that a Goddess should be worshipped and adored.
The hidden meaning behind the honorific is what a Goddess truly does. Gods can be kind and generous…
They can also be cruel, unforgiving, and ruthless.
Bestowing male subs with attention and favors is natural. That means that you’ve caught my interest. It does not mean that I’m incapable of cutting you so deeply with verbal humiliation that you second guess your place in society.
Is Goddess Fiestry Capable of Being a Mommy Domme?
I don’t mind Mommy, but I put a different spin on this honorific.
My readers know that manipulation, mental Domination, hypnosis, and mind games are a big “yes” for me.
Who’s at the root of your puny male psyche, according to (despite his issues) Freud? There’s an opportunity when you call me Mommy. You’re not asking me to keep you safe, warm, and taken care of.
Calling me Mommy means that I hold infinite mental power over you.
A Mommy’s ability to manipulate you starts at the very root of your being. I’m capable of taking advantage of every little weakness… Because why wouldn’t you want to please your Mommy?
Goddess Is a Sign of Respect, Worship, and Devotion
You don’t have the logical reasoning skills to second guess me. The experience that I want you to have, you will get. If you’d like something from me, ask $ generously $ and nicely.
And if you’re the type of submissive man who can take a verbally humiliating beating… Hmu. *mwah*
A Goddess owes you nothing.
She simply collects what she deserves.
