How to Submit to Goddess Fiestry

Here is a detailed guide for male subs on how to submit to me.

Learning the proper way to approach gives you a better chance at getting a reply. I ignore the majority of requests in my inbox because:

• They seem self-serving.
• It seems like our interests do not align.
• Their inexperience is a turn-off.
• The initial message was lazy. (Hi. Hello. What’s up? You’re hot. Etc.)

Use this guide to submission as a reference, and learn how to approach Goddess Fiestry with confidence.

Powerful women gatekeep their accessibility to preserve their energy and choose the right men.

How to Introduce Yourself

Don’t overcomplicate it. The more you think, the higher your nervousness, fear, and anxiety grow. I’m quite approachable and honest about my preferences. It just has to be done properly.

A Step-by-Step Guide on Approaching Your New FemDom Goddess

Step One: Research Before the Approach.

My social media, blog, and paysites have the most information about me. Ask yourself:

• Do we have the same values?
• Do our kinks and fetishes align?
• Are our personalities compatible?
• Am I in your price bracket?

Step Two: Pick an Adult Platform.

I’m on multiple paysites.

Each of them has verified me by ID and a live photo. They payout directly to my bank account or by check. Consider these paysites the third party to keep both of our finances safe.

• LoyalFans – Subscribe and message for free.
• iWantClips – Purchase clips to learn my style.
• SextPanther – For quick sexting sessions and extended messaging.
• Clips4Sale – Same content as iWantClips.
• Wishtender – Send me money directly, and buy me gifts.

My preferred platforms are LoyalFans and Wishtender. I do not take PayPal or Cashapp.

If you’re worried about transactions on your bank statements, Wishtender is the best choice.

Step Three: Craft your introduction, and tribute Goddess.

It doesn’t have to be complex or extravagant. You can:

• Say hi.
• Tell me your name.
• Express why you’re interested.
• Tell me what brought you to my page.

Tributes are an act of worship.

I have no minimum tribute because that is where I want you to take initiative. Do Goddesses give you step-by-step instructions on how to prove your worth? No. You bring me an offering that’s acceptable to a Divine Being.

How to Properly Submit to a Goddess

Every FemDom Goddess is different. I like to take the honorific literally. You call me Goddess, so treat me like one.

Tips and Tricks for Proper Male Submission

Subservience

• Be willing to serve in the ways that I see fit.
• If you have my attention, don’t lose it by being disobedient.
• Take initiative, and go above and beyond.
• Add value to my life.

Dedication

• My memory is short. If you aren’t consistent, I will forget about you.
• “Good morning, Goddess. How may I serve you today?”

Gift-Giving

• Express your adoration with gifts. I am a Goddess, after all.
• If you see me say that I need something, or anticipate that I will, send for it.
• Special occasions are the perfect time to surprise me.
• Books, flowers, food, skill-building classes, travel, videogames, camera equipment, and high-quality outfits are my favorites. But, feel free to surprise me.

Worship

• What Goddess doesn’t love praise and worship?
• If I send you something, express deep admiration and gratitude.
• Be thankful to be in my presence.
• Worshipping my body is welcome, and admiring the things I do for you is fantastic.

What does pleasing me, serving me, and dedicating yourself to me mean?

Here is where the disconnect happens. With eager submissive men, the focus should not be his pleasure. You have to provide something to get anything in return. What can you give an online Domme who’s not short on male attention, praise, and gratitude?

My purpose does not revolve around your dick in any way. My interests go deeper than giving you an orgasm. As a matter of fact, your orgasm means nothing to me.

You prove your worth. Afterwards, we can:

• Get to know each other.
• Have sexy sessions.
• Begin your training.
• Dive deeper into exploring each other.
• And much, much more.

The true expectation is that you serve. It is a gift to be in my presence. Even reading my words should make you feel thankful. I do not have to be here. I chose to be.

Things to Know About Me

I am Southern. That means that I grew up around men who were natural providers.

My trucker grandfather would come home after a week on the job. He’d give everyone in the house their allowance, and immediately start cooking dinner. Every time he came home, he’d bring me a gift and cook my favorite food.

My welder father had similar habits. Instead of an allowance, he gave my mom his credit card. He didn’t cook every day, but he did build our house from the ground up.

I hesitate to say “traditional” because of the sexist and racist connotations when paired with the South. But, something about my upbringing did feel traditional in all the right ways.

If you’re wondering what we give men in return, you’re in the wrong headspace. The perfect matches had well-rounded and simple dynamics. A man asking what he gets in return simply doesn’t understand the benefits.

I have no interest in men without the provider mentality. Haggling, complaining, inconsistency, cutting corners, and being unmotivated are turn-offs.

Little Fun Facts

What Is Not Serving Me?

All of these pet peeves bear repeating in their own section.

It is not serving me to:

• Tell me that you jerked off and came to a 3-second preview.
• Show me your dick with zero context.
• Lurk and leave likes.
• Engage in a one-off session and never speak to me again.
• Randomly ghost.
• Send or contribute the bare minimum.
• Not follow through with my commands.
• Tribute once, then never do it again.

All of these will make you fall out of my favor quickly. I get bored and move on. There’s a line of men waiting. You don’t want to be forgotten for the submissive man who will do what you won’t.

Bear in mind: There is a huge difference between “won’t” and “cannot”.

Inability and unwillingness are not synonyms. If you are unable to gift me the moon, even though I rightfully deserve it, I’ll take what you can give.

Another turn-on is in sacrifice. When male subs tell me that they’re working overtime, saving up, and cherishing our sessions; it moves me. That is dedication.

I do not mind that they can’t afford four-figure sessions. They earn their accessibility to me by working harder.

On the other hand, I’ve had well-off submissive men who wouldn’t spend more than a few bucks. Flaunting your wealth without being a giver is not classy.

Here are my solutions to both problems. These are suggestions. You are welcome to go above and beyond, always.

For male subs with smaller budgets, here’s the best course of action:

• Silent Sends.
• Greet me with a tribute, gift, and a short conversation.
• Save up your money weekly or monthly for one big session.
• Contact me about my financial plan. I love to control finances and improve the lives of those who serve me. That’s what makes me a Goddess.

For male subs with bigger budgets, but skepticism towards me:

• Continue to research me.
• If you start with a big tribute, do not continue to eat away at my time for days or weeks afterwards. I will not wait for you to send more.
• Do you feel like I owe you after a big send? We aren’t compatible.
• Do you get no satisfaction from serving powerful women? Move on.
• Will you use money in an attempt to manipulate me? You can’t play a player, and you have no power here.
• More than likely, you need more training. I may or may not be in the mood for that, depending on our compatibility.

For submissive men who have no desire to serve with money:

• Get on Tinder or PornHub.

Are You Ready to Submit to Goddess Fiestry?

It’s lengthy, but it’s simple.

Introduce yourself. Tribute. Benefit me. You benefit.

The reward for your subservience is so sweet. Be the needle in the haystack of frustrating, boring male subs. I am waiting for you to approach. *mwah*.

Start by filling out a submissive application, or approach directly on my platforms.