Male Service Subs: How to Make Yourself Useful

As a male service sub, it’s 100% possible to be useful. Women have needs, and it’s your life’s purpose to fulfill them.

One of two types of submissive men are reading this. Whether you’re one or the other depends on the intention behind your “acts of service”.

My inbox is filled to the brim with eager service-oriented submissive men. You all want a piece of Goddess, but my presence is limited. I spend my time on the submissive men who earned it.

Coming soon…

The ones who waste their first impression on “hi” get ignored.

Quit wasting my time on useless “acts of service”. The ones who are eager to please understand exactly what I’m saying. Here, you’ll get the keys to the castle.

Read the table of contents for tips and tricks on how to actually serve a female Domme.

My FemDom Pet Peeve: Male “Service” Subs

There is the male service-oriented submissive, and then there are “service” subs.

The difference is start. One is a good boy who enjoys pleasing women. He craves the ability to serve women. In fact, he doesn’t think he deserves her attention until he commits an act of service.

You say that you’re ready to serve until you meet a Goddess like me~

It’s such a sweet way to think.

You take the time out of your day to do something that’s important to her. The thought of failing at that task genuinely makes you anxious. It’s all about pleasing her, and it’s equally sexy as it is beautiful.

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They see all of this FemDom content online. Eventually, they stumble across a Goddess whose image is perfect for his weakling male fantasy.

Is he even submissive, or is he obsessed with jerking off to mean women?

Eventually, he has the audacity to be a timewaster, offering something useless and irrelevant. Never money. Always something that benefits him more than her.

The focus is not on truly helping her. Rather, it revolves around jerking off and cumming. There is zero value in that, and it’s annoying to have to deal with.

What Counts As Acts of Service to a Goddess?

I can only use myself as an example. Other Dommes and Goddesses have different preferences.

So, what do I find useful?

To me, the most satisfying thing any man can do is save me time. Every minute of my day is accounted for. Being a timewaster has negative value. But, gifting time is an act of service that brings true value to me.

What are the biggest time-suckers for me?

• Forgetting important things until last-minute.
• Research for my blog and social media
• Organizing
• Market analysis and data logging
• When I’m burnt out, creating captions and video ideas

ADHD Dommes are real. We’re still hot. We just can’t remember shit, or we procrastinate. :’)

A List of Skills That I Would Find Useful

• SEO
• Marketing
  • Especially A/B Testing
• Teaching and Learning
  • Especially sorting out equations
• Proofreading
• Reading Analytics and Data
• *coughs and whispers* (((DataScraping)))
• Understands Coding Languages (HTML, Python, Java, etc.)
• Market Research
• Investing (Stocks, ETF’s, etc.)
• Finding Holes in My Strategies (Respectfully, of course~)
• Finding Mistakes on My Pages
• Creativity and Brainstorming
• Sometimes, I don’t know what I need until I see it. Present yourself with a respectful inquiry. I may find something for you that you wouldn’t have thought of without my God-like creativity.

Are you reading anything in this list and think, “Hey, I actually know how to do that.”? I’m talking to you. Let’s chat. 😉

I’m waiting~ Come inside.

Notice what’s not in there? Cleaning, cooking, being a piece of furniture, or doing something for the purpose of you jerking off.

Otherwise, don’t pretend to be serving me.

What Does Not Count as an Act of Service?

A male “service sub” offering “services” for the purpose of jerking off and not completing the task.

I have a recent example.

A brand new sub recently approached me, zero tribute in hand, and said this:

“Greetings Goddess, I’m a Video Editing/Graphic Design slave, I can edit videos, design any kind of graphics, or work on anything visuals/tech related! Here is a list of stuff I can do: -edit videos -make previews -subtitle videos -design menus -banners -posters -watermarks(or any graphics) Please let me know if you or anyone else requires any of my services for anything at all! Thank you so much for your time Goddess!”

~ Quoth From a True Loser

Here are the issues I have with this sterling inquiry:

• I didn’t express any need for a video editing or graphic design slave.

I do spend hours editing my best FemDom videos, but it’s for a reason. My style is specific, hard to replicate, and has a certain flow.

Intro to Goon is my best example. It took 6 hours to edit. The payoff was fantastic because it sold 100x more than my average FemDom clip. But, I do not think that a random sub could pull this off.

It’s true that I don’t always have the energy to create a clip this detailed. That’s not my point. I’m saying that once the creativity starts flowing, it does not stop until I’m satisfied with the results.

I’m never afraid to be weird, out of the ordinary, or shocking. That’s a big part of my creativity. The creative process is my favorite part about creating FemDom content.

Alongside writing and creating random stories for videos, that’s my favorite part. Why would I let a random slave have the fun? Ew.

• Subtitles are an important thing that my FemDom clips lack, but that would require he watch them for free.

I type over 170+ WPM with near perfection.

Adding subtitles to my videos is something that I’m capable of. On top of that, I used to work for a captioning company that will subtitle my videos for cheap, and that’s what I intend to use when it feels right.

There is no reason to trust a random sub with my content. We have never spoken before. Anyone can label themselves as a “video editing and graphic design slave” to get free content.

• Where the hell was his portfolio?

Speaking of anyone being able to call themselves a service slave, here’s my big point. He had no portfolio. His Twitter was private. Only one brand new Domme recommended him, and he designed her Twitter banner. (I didn’t like it.)

I shouldn’t have to hold your hand while you make a pitch.

A professional video editor and graphic designer would know to have a portfolio ready at the snap of a finger. That’s what I do as a writer, but perhaps common sense is rare nowadays.

• I have never talked to this random man.

The ability to serve me is a privilege earned over time.

I am a control freak. It’s why I love Dominating men who are incapable of controlling themselves.

To put it simply, I don’t trust anyone with anything valuable. That’s something that needs to be proven with obedience, dedication, and a will to serve.

So far, only one of hundreds have pulled that off, and I still give him tiny tasks that I monitor closely with detailed instructions.

He made it a solid point to express his competence. It took me 4 weeks to give him an actual task that would bring value to my life, and it made him so happy that I decided to do so. I’m getting off topic, but I <3 praising my good competent boy.

His reply to my points? Let’s read.

No Goddess… I’m a broke college sub so I can’t serve dommes financially, therefore I try and be of any use I can by offering my services, however I won’t be able to buy the videos Goddess I’m sorry

Quoth from a Broke True Loser

He did not offer to:

• Prove himself with smaller tasks
• Earn my trust
• Show me a portfolio
• Send a small tribute as a happy medium (I say this like I’d be willing to compromise, but I probably wouldn’t lol.)
• Give me something more valuable

He simply rolled over and proved to me that he was useless. *gag*

Are You Addicted to “Good Boy?”

Hopefully, my short guide taught you something new. Or, it inspired you. 😉

Acts of service are excellent.

But, you’re reading the words of a Goddess who controls every aspect of her tightly booked life. Why would I give up a little piece of control to satiate a man’s dick? Ew.

If you want to prove yourself as a truly useful male service sub, I’m all ears.

There are small things to do to please me, and larger things. It depends on your level of competence, our mutual trust, and time spent together.

Will you disappear if I don’t answer for a week?

Do you need constant timewasting attention that does nothing for me?

Will you be gone in a month, moving on to the next Domme who will give you a sliver of attention?

~Stay away from me. I do not want you as a service submissive.~

You’re welcome to approach as a temporary plaything, but be honest. You will not earn the ability to truly serve me until I deem you competent, reliable, and consistent.

Are You Willing to Serve Financially, but Don’t Have the Money?

First of all, if you truly can’t afford a $20 tribute, you need to get off of the internet.

I’ve talked about this before, but Financial Domination isn’t about huge tributes for me. To me, it’s about the aspect of control. If a finsub makes sacrifices for me, then $20 can be just as hot as a bigger send.

Don’t use that as an excuse to only send small, and listen to the point. It’s about the time that you put into that $20.

What’s that send worth to you? 2 hours of your life, gone straight to my bank account? Then it’s hot.

Do you beg for payday to come sooner, so you can earn 2 minutes of conversation with me? You tribute, get small talk out of me, can’t afford more, and repeat every week? That type of devotion is hot as fuck too.

Here are some financial ways to serve your Goddess. Remember that it’s all about the obedience, the sacrifice, and the dedication towards serving me:

• Sign up for a survey app. Use it in your free time, and give me the money.
• Would you usually spend your night relaxing and watching TV? Sacrifice that time to DoorDash and UberEats, and tribute your tips.
• If you send a small tribute, beg to send me more.
• Is your FinDom addiction paired with an exposure fetish? Hop on a camsite like Chaturbate, and give me the tokens you earn.
• A daily coffee send means a lot, and it’s the best way to let me see that you think about me every morning.
• You can Google “side hustle” or “make money online” and find a million other ideas.

Do You Lack Any Useful Skills? That’s the Point of Having Money.

The fake male service submissive has one goal: Get out of spending money.

That is never going to please a woman. Being concerned with the status of your cock will get you blocked.

If you have zero useful skills, there is one true way to please a Goddess.

Tributes are the only option for you. Otherwise, you’re hopping from Domme to Domme, begging for attention that you do not deserve.

And you wonder why you’re so lonely?

Unfulfilled?

You wonder why you can’t find the perfect Goddess girlfriend?

Look in the mirror, and quit being a bitch. Get another job, a side hustle, start investing; and start serving. Otherwise, you do not exist to me.