In short: Yes, it is possible to be masculine and submissive.
Submission is not a feminine trait. Masculinity is not defined by whether or not a person is Dominant. Topping and bottoming are separate from all four.
It is possible to maintain your masculinity while being a submissive man. I look at that type of submission in the context of being subservient towards your partner. Tending to your partner’s needs, anticipating them, and serving them in a way that brings their feminine traits out.
Masculinity and femininity complement each other well. It’s about finding that energy within yourself and sharing that with a partner.
How Would I Bring Masculine Traits Out of a Submissive Man?
It’s up to the confines of your individual relationship. Discuss everything with your sub.
But, if you’re looking for examples, I can tell you what I do.
I like to set mantras, self-care routines, and acts of services for my submissives.
They’d speak or write their mantras, usually revolving around me or our relationship. I also like to sprinkle in self-love and adoration to build up their mental health.
For self-care routines, that’s a strong preference of mine. I don’t want someone to get so deep into their obsession that they stop taking care of themselves. For submissive men, I think this is essential. Daily showers, a skincare routine, keeping their room tidy, grooming, etc.
Acts of service are my favorite. I enjoy the thoughtfulness put into every action. My best boys usually do this of their own volition, but I like to tell them to do at least one thing daily that benefits me. That could be anything from public adoration to paying for my dinner. It’s the thought that counts.
I don’t like to jump into all of this instantly. This is a lot of work to set up, and it takes dedication for both parties. Only a very select few get these privileges, and it’s because we built our relationship up to that point.
How Do I Express My Feminine Traits While Still Being Dominant?
Female Domination is not a sexuality. It is a preference and a way to approach intimacy in the context of relationships and sex. You’ve got it backwards if you think anythings making us do FemDom.
Female Dominance differs from woman to woman. It’s about our desires, needs, preferences. Once we start prioritizing ourselves, it happens naturally.
In a female led relationship, it may look different than it does in porn. A lot of hardcore mainstream porn is male-centric due to the target audience. Submissive men, especially those with a bit of experience, understand that it’s all about her.