Discussing Cheating Fetish – Causes of Kinks

A few months ago, I wanted to dive into different kinks as fetishes. So, I created a list.

It’s my goal in these posts and similar ones to dive deeper into those fetishes. Let’s start with cheating – controversial, but it still exists.

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Cheating, not to be confused with cucking, is the act out going outside of your relationship to get emotional or sexual gratification. In the context of it being a kink or fetish, they get off on the idea of doing so.

It’s typical for people to sexualize the experiences they have in life. Going by that statement, it’s easy to see why someone may have a cheating fetish. Both women and men can have it.

Depending on why they do, it may be a type of power play or a way to deal with past events.

The attraction to a cheating fetish may include:

• Secrecy
• The idea of being caught
• Revenge on your partner
• Wandering eyes

There is a difference between having a kink/fetish and being an actual cheater. I’ve had single fans who got off on the idea of cheating.

The experience is more important in this context.

On the other hand, homewrecking is also a thing in the BDSM community. These types of people may seek out men/women with partners.

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Cheating Girlfriend Wants Bigger Cocks – ManyVids Fiestry

“But for some women, the taboo of somebody else’s partner cheating is a turn on. These women get off on being a so-called temptress, luring men away from their partners.” – Quote From Vice

Both are misconstrued and lumped in with cuckolding. Cucking is consensual. I’d lump cheating in with noncon in my opinion. This is something I’d like to discuss with other kinksters.

As a Domme, I shy away from cheating fetish, and it’s something I’ve been trying to learn how to turn it in my favor.

Mental Domination is my biggest turn on. I understand how cheating and Mental Domme-ing go hand in hand.

Every once in a while, I’ll get a fan. Like I said before, they’ll be single but get off on cheating. If in their minds, they’re prioritizing getting away with it without their partners knowing, then it’s a form of power exchange.

Despite it being shamed, and even normalized in society, that’s why I won’t partake with a sub I don’t trust.

The longer the relationship, the more comfortable I am with opening those doors.