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Official kinky FemDom blog by Goddess Fiestry, a curvy solo fetish clip creator with a love for writing.

Discover my FemDom clips on LoyalFans, Clips4Sale, and iWantClips.

Here, you’ll see:

– FemDom Clip Updates
– Talk about BDSM and opinions in the kink community
– Write the occassional erotic story
– Update my subscribers with news about me, such as features or new ventures.
– Create a kinky community for submissive men to Worship me.
– Connect with other NSFW adult creators.

  • A Tale of Cuckold Karma

    You’ve been married for years, decades. It’s been so long since you felt the touch of another woman. As you fantasize, you get an excellent idea.

    A high sex drive like yours should be sated. You decide to explore your options.

    So, you asked your wife for an open relationship. The terms are simple. You two get to sleep with whoever you want, but your marriage remains. She agrees almost immediately, and you were too selfish to see what comes next.

    So, you both hop on dating apps.

    The Beginnings of an Open Relationship

    Tinder. Bumble. Hinge. FetLife.

    The search for a hot date is immediately fun and exciting. Both of you spend time swiping, checking out profiles, and it feels so sexy in the moment. As you lay in bed together, this is the most you’ve talked to each other in years.

    She’s getting more matches than you.

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    It’s time for first dates.

    She gets dressed up. As you watch her fix her clothes and makeup in the bathroom, the dread sets in. She hasn’t looked that hot for you in years. It makes you nervous. She’s wearing red lipstick, diamond stud earrings, and new perfume.

    A peak into your future: Every time she goes out on a date, she’ll wear that same new perfume. The sweet smell of it trains your brain to know what’s coming next.

    Jealousy starts to eat away at you, but you can’t let it distract you. You have a hot date too.

    The Results of First Dates

    And how does that date go?

    You paid. A nice chat, dinner, movie; you thought it would lead to sex, but she thanks you and says goodbye. Something about the two of you didn’t click. Perhaps you’ve lost touch with the dating world.

    In your ignorance, you think that your wife had the same results.

    Perhaps it was self-soothing, or maybe it was your inability to see that men want her. How did your wife’s date go?

    Even though you had dinner and a movie, your wife got home later. A few hours after you retired to your living room, you hear her keys in the door. To your horror, she doesn’t look as put together.

    When she left the house, her outfit and makeup were pristine. Now, she looks disheveled. You ask how her night went.

    • 4 million married couples are active cuckolds in the US
    • 80% of the active married couples have tried it with an earlier partner
    • 20% of the active married couples have never tried it before
    • 2 out of 10 married couples get a divorce due to jealousy from cuckoldry
    • Compared to e.g. open marriages this is low. In Open marriages, it is 92% that sooner or later end in a divorce. You can read more about open marriage statistics here.

    Quote From Bed Bible

    As she describes it to you, the dread inside of you grows.

    She met her date. They spent some time on niceties. Then, they went back to his place and fucked.

    Her description of the sex was almost too much for you to handle. As your heart pounds and your face gets red hot, she continues.

    The positions, the size of his dick, the length of the sex; she didn’t leave out any details. He fucked her so hard that she saw stars. The number of orgasms she had, you could never dream of reaching.

    You never thought that a man would appreciate her like that.

    Then, she asks how your night went.

    When you explain it to her, she seems smug.


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    The Fast Lane to Becoming a Cuckold Husband

    In your near future, it will dawn on you that you’ve failed her as a husband. Her promiscuity was only sated by commitment. Though your sex drive was high for other women, it dulled for her.

    Now, women don’t want you, and your wife is too busy being fucked by other men to care.

    However, knowing that men still find her attractive awakens something. It turns you on that she’s desirable and beautiful to others. The cuckold fantasy renews your appreciation for your wife and helps you see her in an entirely different light.

    Trying to save your manhood, you ask her if she’d like to go to the bedroom. If she can fuck another man like that, surely she’ll be ready for round two?

    No.

    She tells you that she’s tired from a long night. After rejecting you, she heads to the bathroom to get ready for bed. She won’t even undress in front of you. Somehow, your cock is rock hard.

    What do you do?

    Go to bed, and jerk off.

    But instead of watching porn, or thinking about the cutie you just had a date with, you think about your wife… and the other man she slept with.

    You can only imagine what she looked and felt like. Being pounded from behind, missionary with eye contact, her moans, how big his cock was; it’s an erotic cuckold nightmare.

    Did she swallow his cum?

    Did she say his name in bed?

    Was she even thinking about you?

    Why is it turning you on so much?

    From Inattentive Husband to Subservient Cuckold

    You have witnessed the birth of your cuckold fetish.

    Your future from here will be a life of subservience to your wife. As she grows to be more Dominant towards you, she willingly submits to other men. You only get to see her naked when she’s being fucked by someone else.

    Sometimes, she wants him to herself and sends you out of the room. Other times, she looks you straight in the eyes and teasing you. Her words become more insulting. As she degrades you, your body responds by getting horny.

    Teased, denied, humiliated; you’ve opened Pandora’s box.

    The only one who can close it is your wife, but she has no desire to. Cucking you with other men is too good. Being fucked by a real man isn’t something she’ll give up easily.

    You’re a much better husband as a cuck. Her needs are met, and you serve her well. Why would she want to go back?

    Your only option now is to sit in the corner and watch.

    Eventually, you may end up in chastity, or swallowing other men’s loads. It’s not up to you.

    Your wife makes the decisions now.

    A Tale I Hear Every Day From Cuckold Husbands

    Every day, a new cuck enters my virtual domain. I’ve heard this story more times than you can count. The details change, but the premise remains the same. For all cucks, this story is a spectrum.

    Some are more accepting of their fate. Others get turned on at the thought. Many cucks try to cope with the reality and struggle to do so.

    When a new cuckold husband approaches me, I do my due diligence. I always ask for his perspective, since submissive men are individuals. I never expect someone to fit into a perfect mold of my expectations.

    But, the story more or less turns out to be the same.

    What Role Do I Play in This Cuckolding Power Dynamic?

    This is where it differs.

    Committed cucks enjoy reaching out to an online FemDom Goddess for a few reasons:

    • They are allowed to watch porn, but aren’t allowed to have sex with their wives.
    • Sometimes, they just need to vent to someone who understands.
    • And more.

    Whatever the reason, I’m a good listener. That’s what makes me such an attentive Domme. Read about My Kinks and Fetishes.

    My Real-Life Experience With a Female Led Relationship

    I experienced a cuckold relationship early in my life. The story was almost the same as what I wrote here. The differences were that I was not married, and he felt shame for being a cuck. Because of that shame, our relationship ended within a year after the power dynamic shifted.

    Submissive men seem to hold a lot of guilt, self-doubt, and shame for their kinks. I choose not to live my life in shame. Encouraging people to be their true, kinky selves is something that I find fulfilling.

    So, that’s my story.

    It’s a part of why I’m so drawn to cuckolding as a fetish and as a lifestyle. Now you know!

    Explore Your Cuckold Kink With Goddess Fiestry

    I’m on many corners of the internet. This blog is my main base, and I branch off on many sites. You may approach me on any of the following:

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  • The Banhammer Cometh: How to Evade a Chaturbate Ban

    Everyone makes mistakes, and depending on the severity, you might get a second chance. Did you mess up your introduction to a model and get the banhammer? Or, you said something that went against the terms of service and receive the dreaded Chaturbate ban?

    Depending on the time, Chaturbate can have over 7000 online broadcasters and 300,000 users online. Losing access to that website is quite the blow.

    Keep calm. I’m a Chaturbate model who’s here to help. The camsite has even banned me a couple of times, and I successfully appealed it with their support team. I’ve also been banned from models’ rooms when they thought I had bad intentions, and I’ve accidentally banned good viewers from my room. So, you should consider me the banhammer expert.

    Whatever your issue, I have advice to steer you in the right direction.

    Scroll to figure out how to get unbanned from your favorite streamer’s room (or the entire camsite).

    “We’re sorry to hear that your account has been banned.  Since each situation is unique, please Contact Support with your username, and we’ll look into your account.” – Direct From Chaturbate’s Support Team

    Did the Actual Camsite Chaturbate Ban You?

    If you’re looking for advice on being banned from a cam models’ room, scroll to the next heading. This section is about being unbanned from Chaturbate itself. 

    Getting banned on Chaturbate is sudden and unexpected. They won’t send you an email. Rather, the next time you log in, you’ll be notified that you’ve been blocked from their site. To add to the confusion, they almost never explain why.

    There are a few negatives to being banned on Chaturbate. Firstly, you’ll lose every piece of content purchased on that account. All of your saved messages, nudes, and xxx videos will be gone. Secondly, anyone you follow, you will have to find again. That’s a problem if you follow hundreds of models. I can keep listing the issues with receiving a permaban, but I’m sure you get it.

    Before you try to appeal the ban, ask yourself the following questions.

    Are You a Notorious Rule Breaker on Chaturbate?

    “Engaging with your viewers is essential for building a loyal fan base. Respond to chat messages, acknowledge tips, and make an effort to remember regular visitors. Use their usernames to create a personal connection. Offer interactive shows, games, or special requests to keep viewers engaged and coming back for more.” – Quote From Invastor

    How can you do that if you’re a banned model. Or, how can you see a model entertaining her viewers if you’re a rule breaker?

    The rules on most popular camsites are pretty straightforward, but viewers often find themselves trying to bypass them. You might get away with it the first few times. Eventually, your luck will run out.

    One thing that confuses members: even roleplaying these things is against the terms of service. You cannot mention them at all. The boundary pushers have a real issue with this, and that’s where they get into trouble.

    Read the rules before you try to appeal your ban:

    • No minors, no users under 18.
    • No meetups.
    • Harrassing and threatening the cam models is bad.
    • Illegal activity (drugs, incest, beastiality, etc.) is prohibited.
    • Raceplay and racism is a no.
    • Extreme violence, including asking for blood, choking, CNC, knives, and guns will get you banned.

    Breaking these rules means that there’s a strong chance that you won’t be able to recover your account. Try to appeal with the support team with an apology explaining your ignorance, but keep your expectations in check.

    Was Your Account Reported and Banned on Chaturbate?

    False reports happen all the time. You’re in a public chatroom with other jealous members, and they’re report-happy to get you away from their favorite model.

    It’s possible that you were reported and received a ban on Chaturbate by mistake.

    Sometimes, CB relies on an AI to do the heavy lifting for them. The AI might take multiple reports as a reason to block your account, even if you’re innocent. It’s a good idea to message their support team to get human eyes on your case. If you didn’t break any rules, they’ll more than likely lift the block on your profile.

    Have You Logged into the Camsite in the Past Year?

    Logging into Chaturbate frequently is necessary to avoid getting banned. But, it’s fortunately easy to appeal. This is simply a way to keep your credit card information safe, and support never took too long to bring my account back after a time-related ban.

    Here is the fastest way to contact CB to attempt to be unbanned.

    What Can You Do to Reverse a Chaturbate Ban?

    Originally, I thought the only way to reverse being banned on Chaturbate was via their support team. After some research, I found other ways! Read this article by DoNotPay. They seem to be a site that’s on the user’s side, who’s willing to step up for your rights.

    According to them, they’ll draft a letter to put legal pressure on CB. If you’re genuinely distressed or missing out of hundreds of purchases videos or photos, I can see this working. This is especially if you’re innocent.

    While this is a great resource for cam viewers, that is also great news for models. When we get banned from Chaturbate, they keep our tokens. Often, they fail to explain what rules we broke, and even more often, we did nothing wrong. Even I, an extreme stickler when it comes to rules, got a ban from Chaturbate twice.

    Were You Banned From a Cam Model’s Stream?

    You’re not the first or the last member to be banned from a model’s room. It happens all the time for all sorts of reasons, and I’ll go through a few below. While you might be confused, the model’s reasoning might be perfectly clear from her end. As always, respect her boundaries, and don’t be a stalker.

    Reasons Why I Block Users From My Camroom

    My energy is sensitive, plain and simple. If someone gives me the wrong vibe, I’ll ban them. No matter what their intentions are, if I don’t like them, I will not pretend. Some reasons why I’ll ban users from my room include:

    • You said something against the terms of service, and explaining that to you puts my Chaturbate cam model account at risk.
    • I sensed that you’re the type to push boundaries.
    • You insulted one of my other viewers, especially if they’re a big tipper.
    • You expected too much out of me for too little tokens.
    • Something that was said pissed me off or made me uncomfortable.
    • We don’t have the same interests, kinks, or fetishes.

    Most of the time, I’ll give one warning or express my boundaries. When a member chooses to ignore that warning, they get hit with the banhammer.

    Remember, you’re not the only one in my chatroom. I have to conserve my energy to talk to hundreds of members, and dealing with a troll or a viewer with an attitude saps my energy quickly. Rather than deal with it, I simply ban and move on.

    Mistakes Happen: If You’re Innocent, Be Generous and StraightForward

    I have banned users on Chaturbate before accidentally! One case that I recall is that a user I wanted to ban and an innocent tipper had similar usernames. Every letter was the same, and there was one different number. While they may have been the same person, their personalities and kinks/fetishes were so different that I believe it was a weird coincidence.

    When I banned the wrong user, I quickly found out, and he came straight back to my room to thank me for unbanning him. It made me feel bad, but mistakes do happen. Keep this in mind, especially if you’re sure that you’re not a rulebreaker

    Consider Accepting the Chaturbate Ban and Moving On

    We can’t win them all. Sometimes, it’s best for your mental health and the cam model to move on. If she won’t give you an answer, there’s no point in prying. Also, being a legitimate stalker after being banned by a camgirl looks bad for you and could lead to legal consequences. Be the bigger person, and move on from the ban.

    Interested in Some Chaturbate Alternatives?

    While Chaturbate is my personal favorite, there are other great camsites, porn websites, and options for adult entertainment. While you’re waiting for your CB to be unbanned, try some new xxx sites. Whatever catches your fancy, you’re welcome to leave a comment below and ask me anything.

    Watch Live FemDom Cams on LoyalFans (Free to Follow Most Cam Models)

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  • Twitter Downfall: How to Find NSFW Creators After a Porn Ban

    Every Twitter (or X, rather) user is aware of the state of the social media site nowadays. Don’t let bad decisions cockblock you. If you’re a fan of adult content creators, you may have heard us speaking negatively about Elon Musk’s actions. I’ll be straightforward: follow your favorite porn creators anywhere possible.

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    You never know when we’ll wake up, and the CEO will hatch another bird-brained (bird app?) plan. His next endeavors could easily tank the world of porn. (And in my opinion, they definitely have) As soon as we adult content creators stop making money on Twitter, we will jump ship. Don’t wait; be proactive!

    Update: My foresight knows no bounds! I wrote this post weeks ago as of October 12th, 2023, but I decided to post it early. Why? Twitter is flagging NSFW creators and choosing not to show their pages in the For You page or the Follow page.

    I’m not trying to be smug, but I knew something was fishy. I’ll update this blog as more information becomes available.

    More updates will be available at the end of this blog post.

    I’ll give you ideas, words of warning, words of comfort, and tips to keep up with your faves outside of Twitter.

    Follow Porn Creators on Their Free Links.

    Don’t procrastinate. Many porn creators, camgirls, phone sex operators, etc. have websites that allow free follow. If you’re not ready to pay, that’s okay! But, anyone is capable of following their favorite creators for free.

    Find Her Official Website (If She Has One)

    First, look for her official website. She more than likely made that as a backup plan, and it’ll have her most up-to-date links. It’s becoming an adult industry standard to have an official website. So, if you see one, subscribe to her newsletter, put it in your RSS Feed for updates, or check back often.

    The best part about an official website: You should expect it to remain the same basically forever. It’s not common practice to change your domain name, unless you’re doing a full rebrand. In short, expect the creator to use the exact same dot com name for their entire career.

    Free to Follow Porn Websites

    Check if the pornstars you view have a free OnlyFans or PornHub. Those are the popular adult sites that doesn’t require you to pay. While Twitter hosts a more convenient feed, direct follows are the best way to get in touch with individuals.

    Here are some more free porn sites to look for:

    It may be overwhelming to have an account with dozens of different porn websites, but there are solutions. If you’re a younger adult, you may have never heard of an RSS Feed. But, it’s a great way to pull all of your fave porn websites from the web and put them onto one solid feed.

    Just take your link, and add it to the feed. It’ll automatically read new posts for you and have them in one place.

    I use Feeder to read favorite websites for free (with some limits, heads up!).

    Leave a comment if you have suggestions.

    Twitter Alternatives: Find Your Favorite Pornstars on Other Social Media

    It’s common for sex workers to have a backup plan. Most of us have at least two social media accounts, and we try to utilize the same username. For example, find me (Fiestry) on Instagram, Reddit, and Tumblr. I’m not as active on other social media as Twitter, but it were to go up in flames, I’d move to other platforms.

    Other sex workers have the same plan. Look for her on every popular social media, and follow her. Check back to see where she’s most active, and make that your main source to view her updates.

    Keep in mind, her posting habits may be different from X due to the terms of service on each app. (Sadly, nudes and explicit material isn’t allowed on Instagram, and Tumblr is funny about it. Twitter and Reddit are king for explicit nudes)

    Most of the time, it’s easy to find her by:

    • Googling her username
    • Following her mutuals on Instagram, Tumblr, or Reddit; and waiting for her to pop up.

    Other popular Twitter alternatives include:

    • BlueSky Social
    • Mastodon
    • Threads
    • Mastodon
    • Spill

    Ask Adult Content Creators for Their Twitter Alternatives

    Have you tried everything, but you still can’t find alternative websites run by your favorite adult content creators? If her DM’s are open, ask. Or, tag her on Twitter. If she sees it, she’ll be happy to provide you with alternative ways to get in touch.

    Don’t Let Twitter Executives Cockblock You.

    Or rather, the one executive who makes all of the decisions. Be proactive, and start following us now. You never know when the day will come.

    I hope this helps!

    Update October 13th, 2023

    Our engagement bounced back from the NSFW ban scare! This is great news. But, my advice still stands. Be sure that you’re able to find your favorite creators wherever they might be.

    We have no control over social media, and anything can happen at any time.

    Creators, don’t put all of your eggs in one basket.

    Fans, try to at least follow us on backup social media. You don’t have to use it… until you need it. <3