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  • Share Nudes and Chat With Pornstars: SextPanther Review

    It’s not hard to find a space on the internet to share nudes. But, what about a sexy chat with pornstars? SextPanther lets anyone chat anonymously with verified porn creators.

    I’m here to answer all of your questions in detail. If you want a quick read, check the table of contents for relevant answers.

    What Is SextPanther?

    SextPanther is a premium sexting site that allows fans to chat with pornstars. Each of the models on the site are 100% real, verified creators.

    There’s a nice mix of:

    • Famous porn names
    • Camgirls from sites like Chaturbate
    • Fetish models and FemDom
    • OnlyFans girls
    • Real amateurs.

    The adult site hosts endless options for all preferences in body type, chatting vs. cam to cam, ethnicity, fetishes, and more.

    How Does the Premium Sexting Site Work?

    When you sign up to SextPanther, add models to your contacts for free. Then, choose whether to chat, interact with their Feed, or video/phone call them (if available).

    To chat with real pornstars on SextPanther, it’s important to understand a few things:

    • Chatting with pornstars is a premium and exclusive experience.
    • Most models prioritize SextPanther over other adult sites because of the pay-per-message system. Basically, fast replies.
    Fiestry profile on SextPanther reads: 24 & 5’3 switch ❗️ SIZE QUEEN❗️big tits & a big ass. Cucks, betas, human wallets, and losers are welcome to test their luck 🤭 Dirty talk, playful & mean teasing, roleplay, SPH, CEI, JOI, cheating fantasy, chastity, edging 😈 Love to chat & send audio. 👅 Custom videos & dick ratings OPEN. Add me & send a message now.

    Sext or Casual Chat for Adult Members

    Adding tokens to your account lets you chat with the pornstars on SextPanther. Share your kinks, fetishes, and fantasies with zero judgement. Or, get to know your favorite creator with a casual chat. There are no expectations, only sexy fun.

    Share Nudes and Erotic Photos

    SextPanther lets you share nudes from your phone or desktop. The model on the other end of the screen might send you an erotic photo too. If there’s something specific you want to see, don’t be shy! Ask. 😉

    Send and Receive Erotic Audio

    The premium sexting site also allows models to send you real-time erotic audio. So, you get to hear her voice in the moment. Tell her what turns you on, and she’ll happily oblige with a clip of her sensual voice.

    Erotic Phone Calls

    Phone sex never died, and SextPanther is proof. If phone chats with pornstars piques your interest, see if she’s available. There’s a button on her profile that says “Call Me Directly.” Click it.

    Video Chat With Pornstars (Live Cam to Cam)

    The same as erotic phone calls, live video chat is available too. SextPanther lets you cam to cam, so you get the true, live one-on-one experience.

    Unlock Verified Porn by Creators

    Models on SextPanther usually create hot porn for their viewers’ enjoyment. You don’t have to leave the sexting site to see it. Scrolling her Feed on her profile might expose you to her latest PPV content that’s easy to buy with one click.

    How Many Creators Use SextPanther?

    As of this blog post, 13,000 pornstars, camgirls, amateur and FemDom creators use SextPanther.

    Lots of new models join the premium sexting site daily. It’s becoming quite popular among popular creators. The opportunity to share nudes and grow as an adult content creator is too sweet to ignore. So, if you stick around, expect to see some new pretty faces.

    Never Miss a Chat With the TextPanther App

    When I first joined SextPanther, members could message me directly with their (anonymous) phone number. It had SMS integration, making iteasy to keep in touch anywhere. But, the sexting site sadly lost those privileges.

    There is a replacement, though!

    The TextPanther app is easy to download straight to your phone. It’s available on Android and iOS.

    Since adult content isn’t allowed in app stores, there’s a small loophole you have to go through to download the app. But, once it’s on your phone, it’s 100% functional just like the SextPanther site.

    Is SextPanther Legit?

    In short, yes. My year-anniversary for signing up to SextPanther is only a month away. I’ve never had issues with payment processing, logging in, or using the adult site.

    To be honest, it’s my favorite platform for sexting.

    Is the Premium Sexting Site Safe and Anonymous?

    Yes, I’d say that SextPanther is anonymous and safe for members. Here’s a perspective straight from an adult content creator’s mouth. When a member adds me, I see nothing about them.

    The only information on my end is their public username and profile picture. It’s not even connected to any social media like Twitter or Facebook.

    In short, I know nothing about you until you tell me.

    Who Am I?

    Call me Fiestry. If you’re a subscriber to this blog, you know me already.

    And to the newbies, welcome! I’m an amateur adult content creator, occasional camgirl on Chaturbate, and a lot of sexy fun to my fans.

    Have you seen my kinky porn? I make a lot of it.

    Here’s your cue to go on a deep dive. Feel free to share nudes with me; and I might send you something special to thank you. 😉

    Is Premium Sexting Affordable?

    SextPanther models charge anywhere from $1 per message to $5. Most of them charge between $1 and $2. Depending on their demand and popularity, they might go up in price. But, I often see super popular performers available at $1, so it depends.

    The cost to share nudes, cam-to-cam, or unlock the creator’s porn varies.

    This is a premium sexting site. There are plenty of options to sext for free, but not as many adult sites have a huge concentration of pornstars ready to chat now.

    The Benefits of Premium Sexting and Verified Porn

    The pros and cons of free sexting vs. premium are simple.

    Premium Sexting

    It’s fast and easy. You don’t have to spend time on niceties. The pornstars, camgirls, and amateur creators on SextPanther are ready to sext now. All you have to do is introduce yourself.

    It’s anonymous, and you get to share the dirtiest fantasies with someone who’s ready to welcome your kinks.

    Verified Porn

    Verified porn creators can’t simply join the adult sexting site with no boundaries. They have to provide their ID and social media to get approved. The same way that PornHub switched to all verified amateurs and pros in 2020, SextPanther does the same.

    You are 100% talking to who you think you are. Still skeptical? Ask her to send you a real-time audio message or a video.

    They’re all of age and willing to be on the premium sexting site; so you don’t have to worry about being catfished. Share nudes with your favorite creators with zero worries.

    One-on-One Sexting vs. Cam Sites

    Cam sites like Chaturbate work differently than premium sexting sites. Instead of sitting in a room with 100+ other men and one camgirl, you get the one-on-one experience.

    It’s great for members who prefer intimacy and special attention.

    It’s Almost Impossible to Find a 100% Free Way to Chat With Pornstars.

    Have you tried to chat with a pornstar on PornHub or Twitter only to hear crickets? That’s because PornHub isn’t the best place to chat or share nudes. Instead of competing against millions of other men, eliminate the competition.

    Sign Up for SextPanther and Chat With Pornstars

    You made it this far. So, you must be interested in what SextPanther has to offer. If want to chat with pornstars, feel free to sign up.

    My XXX profile is right here, ready for you to say hello.

    Are You an Adult Content Creator Ready to Sext Fans?

    Hello! I’d love to refer you to my favorite premium sexting site. If you’re an adult content creator with a fanbase, I recommend SextPanther. Use my referral code to sign up today.

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    About the Author – Goddess Fiestry

    Thank you for reading my blog.

    Much like writing, Female Domination is my creative outlet. I use kink as a way to express my sexuality. As I spend time building my influence, new subs make their way to me.

    So, here’s a more about Goddess Fiestry & my blog:

    • 6 years as an NSFW content creator
    • 200+ FemDom clips created in 2022/2023
    • A strong interest in chastity, cuckold, gooning, humiliation, and other hot kinks
    • Top 6% on LoyalFans frequently
    • Frequently top 500 on SextPanther

    I write opinions, guides on what I know, new clip updates, and whatever else catches my fancy. If you’d like free updates, my newsletter is for you.

    More About Goddess Fiestry

  • How to Approach and Sext SextPanther Models

    Are you a SextPanther newbie who’s overwhelmed? There are so many beautiful SextPanther models waiting for you to make your move.

    But, if you never send that first message, the conversation won’t start flowing. Talk to her with confidence by learning the right way to approach SextPanther models.

    By the end of this article, you’ll learn how to sext real adult content creators with confidence.

    Keep reading for advice straight from an SextPanther model’s mouth.

    How to Sext Real PornStars, Camgirls, and Adult Content Creators on SextPanther

    As of this blog post, over 12,000 of the hottest creators own an account on SextPanther. If you want to grab their attention, you have to stand out.

    We creators get hundreds of messages that aren’t necessarily serious. So, it’s easy to overlook one-word replies or “hi”. Standing out is as simple as properly introducing yourself, being honest with your expectations, and being fun to talk to.

    SP is a great site to text video chat with female and male creators, and get to know your favorite pornstars.

    It’s been my favorite adult website for the last year. And, I’m confident you’ll say the same.

    Step 1: Read.

    First, start by reading her profile. The majority of sexters fail to pay attention to a creator’s bio. It’s an easy way to avoid asking for things that she doesn’t offer. Also, plan your budget around her premium messaging, figure out how much it costs to send and receive pictures, etc.

    The SextPanther profile of FemDom Goddess Fiestry. Her description reads: "24 & 5’3 | curvy Goddess 💋 all natural beauty deserves to be Worshipped — Edging like a dumb gooner strokeslut makes you weak for me | Cucks get the treatment 🔒 🍆 they deserve | Dirty talk roleplay, humiliation, CEI, JOI, cheating, chastity | Sexting, personal video, & audio replies — $ends to please your favorite Goddess 🫶🏼 Begin LIVING your fantasy. Chat with me 👇🏼"

    Her SextPanther bio will have everything you need to know. Whether you pay to sext the FemDom goddess of your dreams, or want a casual girlfriend experience; it all starts with the bio.

    Step 2: Add the Model As a Contact

    Adding her to your contacts is easy. You click one button, and she’s all yours. Depending on her style, she might message you first to welcome you, or she’ll wait for you to make the first move. Either way, you have to add her if you want to chat with a real pornstar.

    Step 3: What should you say first?

    Here’s where it gets case-by-case. Sexting women might seem intimidating, but I try my best to make every shy guy comfortable.

    Before we chat, I ask my new contact adds about their kinks or fetishes. That lets me see why they’re open to premium sexting and what content they’d like to see.

    Really, it’s okay to be honest.

    Basically, don’t leave me guessing and wondering what your kinks, fetishes, and interests are.

    Give her a little introduction, include your likes and dislikes, and tell her what turns you on. It’s that simple.

    Most of the models on SextPanther are seasoned creators with a decent following. If she’s good (and she probably is), she’ll understand exactly what to do next.

    How to Prove You’re Sexting a Real Pornstar?

    Many men fear chatting with an imposter or a catfish. While that’s reasonable, it’s less likely on a premium chat service like SextPanther. Every creator is verified by ID and social media.

    You’re talking to exactly who you think you are.

    Do you need more tips? Here are a few ways to see if she’s who she says:

    • Ask her for an audio message featuring her voice.
    • Ask her to send a video saying your name or username.
    • If her premium video chats or phone sex line is open, call her.
    • Spend time getting to know her rather than jumping straight into a sexy session.

    SextPanther is a *Premium* Sext Service for Real Fans of the Models

    Most adult content creators, pornstars, and camgirls get hundreds, if not thousands, of messages per day. That’s impossible for one person to sort through, and I personally won’t even try.

    When somebody texts me via SextPanther, they have my full attention. I see that they value my time, and I reward them by giving them the sexiest experience imaginable.

    Pay for Exclusivity and One-on-One Attention

    Every fan wants to chat with pornstars and content creators, but think of it this way. What value would private messaging me have if I replied to every free message?

    Not only is it impossible, but it’s not a exclusive experience. Pay to sext helps me differentiate who’s a fan vs. a freeloader. Therefore, only my true fans get access to me, and SP’s one of only two places to talk to me.

    Keep this in mind. If your budget is too short to chat with your favorite pornstar, that’s okay. In short, there are plenty of options for low budgets.

    If you can’t pay for premium sexting, try these options instead:

    • Subscribe to her OnlyFans and text her.
    • Follow for free on LoyalFans, and see if she allows free xxx chat.
    • Send her a tip or a tribute on CashApp, and try to start a conversation on social media.
    • Find a regular girl who’s willing to text you for free.

    Before You Pay to Sext Women, Read the SextPanther TOS

    Rules are boring and frustrating, but there are a few important ones to follow. Whether that’s the SextPanther Terms of Service or a model’s own rules, you have to follow them.

    Failing to do so could result in getting IP banned from the sexting service. Basically, you will no longer be able to sext with the pornstars on the adult site, so behave!

    Recent Updates to SextPanther’s Terms of Service:

    As of December 11th, 2023, SextPanther changed their code of conduct.

    Here are the updates that both models and users should follow. This is the best way to avoid being banned or blocked by the sexting site or by models themselves.

    SextPanther models are not allowed to…

    • Knowingly engage with users who have been suspended, blocked, or banned.
    • Post or mention external links.
    • Include non-consenting voices or images of other people in media messages.
    • Engaging with users who have committed credit card fraud is against SextPanther TOS.
    • Doxxing and sharing information about other models
    • Models need written permission to share other SextPanther models on their Explore Page or in their media.
    • Creating a user account to tip yourself is now against the SextPanther TOS.
    • Models cannot sell physical items (panties, bathwater, etc.)
    • Plagiarism is now explicitly against the terms of service agreement.

    SextPanther Rules:

    We as models are required to report users who insist on breaking SextPanther TOS.

    Most of my clients are casual messagers, cucks, submissive men, or one-off sexters. All of that is totally fine. However, I do get a rulebreaker every once in a while, and I have to end our texting session early.

    Avoid getting blocked by following some simple rules.

    • Don’t harass or bully anyone.
    • No asking for anything illegal.
    • Asking to go offsite for chatting or payment (Snapchat, Instagram, etc.)
    • Models can’t accept CashApp, Venmo, or PayPal.
    • Avoid discussing meetups.

    SextPanther Model Code of Conduct:

    More examples of forbidden actions not allowed in the SextPanther Terms of Service Agreement.
    An list of forbidden actions not allowed in the SextPanther Terms of Service Agreement.
    An example of actions not allowed in the SextPanther Terms of Service Agreement.No: - Extreme BDSM - Threats of violence or harm (to others or to yourself) - Doxing

    The models on SP also have strict rules in the TOS that they need to follow. The Code of Conduct lists every service that they aren’t allowed to offer.

    There are no ways around the Code of Conduct. If they get reported or randomly audited by SextPanther, their account could get suspended or banned.

    If you ask for something that breaks the TOS, you’re putting their account at risk. Don’t be selfish; follow the terms of service.

    Model Rules:

    Start with questions and getting to know the model before sexting. You can ask:

    • What are your boundaries or limits?
    • What do you love in a sext session?
    • What’s your favorite thing to do on SextPanther?
    • For FemDom Goddesses: How can I please you, Goddess?
    • Tipping, unlocking her Feed, and showing genuine interest makes all the difference.

    A model’s rules vary, depending on her comfort level. I can only use myself as an example because of this.

    What are the rules for chatting with me?

    I am comfortable with most things, as long as they’re legal, consensual, and in line with SextPanther TOS. What I love to do is written on my profile, and going by that list of naughty kinks puts you in my good graces automatically.

    Mostly, I switch between girlfriend experience and FemDom. I’m happy under those categories for any horny man who’s looking for paid sexting. But, I am quite diverse and always willing to try a sexy new fantasy.

    That’s why I describe myself as fetish-friendly. The filthier, the better.

    Log on to SextPanther and Message Real Pornstars Now

    Curvy FemDom Goddess Fiestry in lingerie. It is a selfie of her looking at the camera as she beckons you to beg her for more.

    Add Goddess Fiestry on SextPanther

    Did I help you figure out how to make your first move? Good, I like my men confident and happy to please.

    When you’re ready, log on to SextPanther.com and start chatting. I’m available. *wink*

    Do you want to read more blog posts by Fiestry?

    Check out my advice for clients page, or keep track of my new XXX content.

    I also have an official website with links to all of my adult sites.

    Subscribe for Free Updates

    Are You an Adult Content Creator?

    I’d be happy to help. Contact me with questions, or go straight to my referral page to sign up.

    Use My SextPanther Referral Code

    I am also working on creating a dedicated category that features advice for adult content creators.

    If you are interested in my little snippets about being a sex worker, bookmark that page, or subscribe! (Scroll to the bottom of this blog.)

    Note: Signing up to my referral page doesn’t put your money in my pocket. SextPanther pays all creators for referrals, and it comes directly out of the site’s pocket.

    You earn 100% of the money that you are owed. It’s just a small way to say thank you if I helped you find a way to get paid to chat with men.

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    About the Author – Goddess Fiestry

    Thank you for reading my blog.

    Much like writing, Female Domination is my creative outlet. I use kink as a way to express my sexuality. As I spend time building my influence, new subs make their way to me.

    So, here’s a more about Goddess Fiestry & my blog:

    • 6 years as an NSFW content creator
    • 200+ FemDom clips created in 2022/2023
    • A strong interest in chastity, cuckold, gooning, humiliation, and other hot kinks
    • Top 6% on LoyalFans frequently
    • Frequently top 500 on SextPanther

    I write opinions, guides on what I know, new clip updates, and whatever else catches my fancy. If you’d like free updates, my newsletter is for you.

    More About Goddess Fiestry

  • How SextPanther Boosted My Career As a Creator

    As an adult content creator, diversifying platforms is essential. One day, I signed up for SextPanther to get paid to chat with men. That decision changed my career as a sex worker.

    I’ll tell you how, plus give tips and tricks for new or current SextPanther models.

    Note: If you’re looking for paid sexting, you may be lost. Visit my official website, and add me for a chat.

    Hopefully, my story inspires you. I always try to include a unique perspective. My goal is to share advice for adult content creators to help beginners, those who need a refresher/revamp, or those struggling to make money.

    This is a highly detailed, longform post.

    If you’re in a rush, check out the table of contents and read what’s relevant to you.

    Who Am I?

    Call me Fiestry. (It’s pronounced fees-tree.) I started camming and creating content for the adult industry in 2018. Chaturbate was my main camming platform, and I occasionally uploaded to ManyVids.

    Due to sex shame and being insecure with my body, I quit pretty early. Being raised puritanical did damage on my brain that I needed to heal. But, when I started sex work again in 2021, I returned with a plan.

    On my break, I worked multiple marketing, writing, and SEO jobs. I got the experience outside of the adult industry. One day, I decided to apply that knowledge to sex work; and now I’m back and better than ever.

    When I’m free, I log my experiences as a sex worker and present it as advice to others. This is one of those occasions. Enjoy!

    Fiestry profile on SextPanther reads: 24 & 5’3 switch ❗️ SIZE QUEEN❗️big tits & a big ass. Cucks, betas, human wallets, and losers are welcome to test their luck 🤭 Dirty talk, playful & mean teasing, roleplay, SPH, CEI, JOI, cheating fantasy, chastity, edging 😈 Love to chat & send audio. 👅 Custom videos & dick ratings OPEN. Add me & send a message now.

    Discovering Paid Sexting on SextPanther

    I knew about SextPanther since 2018, but I did not sign up until 2022. Sexting wasn’t my thing, or so I thought. Now, it’s my second highest-earning service other than custom porn.

    My responsibilities with advertising and other adult sites were in the way, and I lacked the mental bandwidth for another one.

    During one slow season on ManyVids and Chaturbate, I signed up to SextPanther. Now, I have lots of free time while I earn more money.

    Adult Site Resources for Adult Content Creators

    Before I dive into any new site, I do my research. I’ve joined enough to know what I need as an adult content creator. Joining a new site that’s a bad fit for me wastes my efforts and makes me lose money.

    I’ll list the best sites for sex workers to research below. First, I ask myself the following questions:

    • Does the adult site have internal discoverability?
    • Is it safe to share my payment information with?
    • Are any top models or well-known names on it?
    • Do they pay creators in full without delay?
    • Do they have any controversy?
    • What kind of internal traffic do they have?

    The answers to these questions are spread far and wide on the internet. But, I will post my favorite free resources right here.

    Why I Don’t Recommend Googling Adult Content Creator Advice

    When I search for resources, I try to keep my research specifically written by other sex workers. Since OnlyFans blew up, mainstream news outlets want to jump on the bandwagon.

    My qualm with them is that they are not giving advice by adult content creators. They just know how to game Google to get high search rankings.

    Popular news sites miss important details and present cookie-cutter information to benefit from ad revenue or referrals.

    Why Sources Are Important When Searching for Adult Content Creator Advice

    Remember how I said I was a writer and an SEO? I wrote posts for a handful of websites in the first Google search results. Because they paid me basically nothing, I spent little time researching.

    Half of the time, I had zero experience with the subject. I’d just write something that I knew would rank well on Google. Almost 100% of the top results you’ll find are doing the exact same thing that I did.

    Are you a sex worker with a blog, social media, or forum who loves to share advice?

    My goal is to protect creators from misinformation or being under-informed by going on deep dives; telling the good, bad, and ugly; and being as honest as possible.

    The best adult content creator advice blogs are buried deep in the search results, and I won’t read a popular blog’s surface-level bandwagon “advice” with zero adult industry experience.

    So, if you have any suggestions for this list of sex worker resources by sex workers, leave them in the comments! If the list gets long enough, I’ll link this article to another post with the masterlist.

    SextPanther Breach of Privacy Concerns

    In the past, SextPanther had an issue with breaching adult content creator’s privacy. I wasn’t signed up to the premium sexting site at the time, but it seemed devastating. Leaking personal information is a huge concern for all sex workers. It shouldn’t be swept under the rug.

    Apparently, SW’s drivers licenses and personal information were leaked. But, it seemed like an isolated fuck up on their part. First of all, the exposed information wasn’t labeled “SextPanther models’ drivers licenses and addresses, let’s dox these bitches.”

    There’s more to the story.

    The information was discovered by a penetration testing company. Their purpose revolves around protecting privacy by looking for leaks specifically to notify websites. It was not a malicious hacker.

    After being informed of the leak, the CEO of SextPanther pulled the information offline. This is alleged, since he neither confirmed or denied that the stored information was SP models. (It probably was, but that’s my opinion. Also, some models from SP confirmed that it was their license when the security company contacted them.)

    Read my source of information here.

    Here are the facts.

    SextPanther was allegedly irresponsible with sensitive data. A security company found the flaw and notified them. To the best of our knowledge, nobody else saw the data or connected it to the models. Then, we can assume SP changed their data storage. Hopefully, they learned from their mistake.

    To me, that’s the type of mistake that you only make once, but I wanted to be honest with my full SextPanther experience. I’d hate to recommend a new adult site, knowing that this could be an issue for someone.

    If SextPanther’s mishandling of sensitive data is a concern for you, I also have a LoyalFans review for adult content creators.

    How I monitor my privacy

    I use a different email for all of my adult sites. So, I monitor if there are email leaks (leading to Spam emails). I’ve gotten no spam emails on my SextPanther email. I do get spam calls and texts on my phone, but don’t we all? I can’t blame SP for that one.

    Also, my name or address have never been leaked. (Knock on wood!) Leaks do happen, and it’s important to prepare. Start by shutting down your personal social media, removing your address from namefinder sites, and keeping a different password for every adult site.

    Honeypots are also a good strategy in the event of leaks. Create accounts on social media or other websites with your real face, fake name, fake addresses, etc. Then, you send the hacker down the rabbithole of fakeness where they belong.

    Here are some more privacy tips for sex workers.

    How My Career Skyrocketed After SextPanther

    My first month on SextPanther was during the winter. That’s a notorious slow season for sex workers.

    Since I’m a full-time creator, I rely on my earnings, savings, income, and investments to keep me afloat. When it’s slow, I have ways to boost my income, and one of those strategies is signing up for new sites.

    SextPanther was next on my list, and I wish I’d signed up sooner.

    How I Grew on SextPanther

    When you sign up to SextPanther, you get a “New Model” tag. Clients who want to pay to talk to pornstars love seeing the new models. So, you’re at an advantage when you’re new.

    It’s a habit of mine to live on a new adult site until the new tag is up. And, I always expect a decrease in earnings after it expires.

    But, with the way SextPanther’s main page is set up, it’s easy to get seen without the new tag. That’s a big key to success. Active and chatting creators constantly pop up on the home page. New contact adds roll in, and the income snowballs.

    So, I sexted fans day and night. I prioritized new contact adds (which bit me in the ass later, I’ll admit! Regulars are the way.) and stayed consistent every day.

    I earned my place entirely through paid chatting and sexting on SextPanther. At that point, I did not offer FemDom services, only vanilla girlfriend experience chatting.

    How My SextPanther Earnings Boosted My Brand

    It was an almost immediate shift from struggling to pay bills, to consistently making the money I needed. By combining luck and hard work, I made enough to catch up on bills.

    Then, I had the breathing room to grow my brand, relax, and start focusing on the important parts of sex work. Less advertising, more working.

    Because I made enough to focus on my brand, my video quality increased. I felt comfortable charging more on ManyVids, grew my Twitter account, and eventually bought this domain.

    All of these things contributed to what I call my “next level” as an adult content creator.

    How Much Do I Earn on From Sexting on SextPanther?

    I don’t like posting my exact earnings. The sensationalism of sex worker’s money makes me uncomfortable.

    Between newbies who think they’ll be an instant millionaire and news outlets who follow toxic trends, I like to keep my money private.

    But, I will say that I earn enough money to:

    • Put money into savings, stocks, and investments
    • Have enough put away to not work for months
    • Pay my bills without worry
    • Take a few vacations a year
    • Buy whatever I want within reason
    • Venture into new projects without worrying about financial failure

    As of this blog post, SextPanther is 60% of my earnings. When I first signed up in 2022, it was 80%+.

    My SP money did not shrink; in fact, I’m earning more. But, I grew my other revenue streams in that year, hence the smaller percentage SP takes up.

    How Do I Get Paid to Chat Online?

    99% of my SextPanther money comes from texting, sending photos, and audio messages. I rarely take video calls or do phone chats.

    Mostly, I target customers who prefer to chat.

    Here’s how:

    • I’m online when they’re at work (7am to 8pm EST)
    • I talk about sexting and SextPanther on Twitter
      • You’ll show up in the right customer’s algorithm.
    • I keep my chat prices low ($1.25 to $1.75) and my video call prices sky-high ($10 to $15).
    • I clearly put “I love sexting” on my bio.
    • On my Feed, I talk about the sexiest chats I’ve had.
    • When a customer wants a video call, I tell them that I offer custom videos, dick ratings, audio messages, premade videos, and sexting.
      • Mostly, this keeps me from losing out on a sale.

    Why am I doing everything in my power to avoid video chats? They burn me out, and I hate them. End of story.

    You’ll probably easily out-earn me if you offer them, and I’m happy for you! You do what works for you, and I’ll do what works for me.

    I don’t send mass messages.

    For some reason, mass messages convert horribly. I don’t send them. Instead, I message every individual customer who’s online, and I message customers in my Favorites tab to remind them to come back.

    Making each message personalized is important. To do this, you learn more about your clients long term.

    My first question is, “What are your kinks and fetishes?” Then, I dive deeper into their individual needs the longer we stay in touch.

    I stay active.

    When I log in, I have a routine:

    • Chatting
    • Posting to the SextPanther Explore Page
    • Changing my profile picture
    • Changing my tags
    • Messaging clients quickly and with relevance

    SP likes activity. If you seem active, they’ll put you on the homepage.

    I mind my ranking.

    While ranking isn’t everything, it does matter on SextPanther. A high model rank does not matter to all customers. But, it makes certain customers feel like they’ll have a more satisfying experience.

    With a high model rank, more contacts add you and engage with your posts. Also, you get to charge more and appear on the homepage more easily.

    Time when you’ll be online and ready to sext fans.

    On the 1st of every month, the SextPanther model ranking resets. That’s your cue to grind until it’s at a decent spot. Then, you should be set for the rest of the month if you stay consistent.

    When my model rank does drop below 500, I try not to sweat it. We get busy, and we’re allowed to take breaks. I still make money with a lower model ranking, but I do have to work harder to get discovered.

    Leveraging SextPanther for Sex Worker Success

    I mentioned this before, but I’ll go more in depth.

    Advertising took up 80% of my work, and I felt like I was getting nowhere. The energy to revamp my strategy was low due to being in survival mode.

    Because SextPanther brought me ahead of the game with my earnings, I had breathing room. The freedom to venture into other projects put me in a great spot. Here’s what I’m doing so far.

    Growing My Twitter:

    Even though Twitter is up in the air (thanks, Elon), I’m prioritizing followers and conversions. It’s easy to create a few Tweets and replies, and leave it to grow. I use it as social proof to my potential fans. If they see that I’m active on Twitter, they trust me more as an adult content creator.

    Instead of grinding on Twitter to make money, I’m on a light schedule that fits my need.  Funny enough, being on Twitter a bit less and adding a few relevant posts helped my account grow much faster than a 24/7 grind.

    Creating More Content:

    Because SextPanther supplemented so much of my income, I felt comfortable creating more content. The more vids you create, the more traffic you bring. If you post often, that’s another solid stream of income.

    Now, I create new videos 4 times per week. Then, I upload 3 of them on ManyVids, LoyalFans, FapHouse, and Clips4Sale.

    The extra video, I store for a rainy day just in case I need a break. When I want a vacation, I schedule my extra videos. For as long as I’m gone, my passive income takes over.

    Using SextPanther contacts for new video ideas. 

    Most of my best-selling video ideas came from SextPanther. Leveraging your contacts for inspiration is the perfect way to see what clients want. When you talk to them, they’ll usually tell you exactly what they like. Then, you get to take that and turn it into reality.

    Buying My Domain and Blogging:

    This is a new revenue stream for me, but I feel confident in it. Like I mentioned before, SEO and writing are my bread and butter. I have experience building websites from the ground up.

    I always knew that a website was necessary to grow, but I didn’t have the funds to start. As soon as I felt financially comfortable, I bought fiestry.com and created the subdomain blog.fiestry.com.

    Now, I spend my free time writing blog posts or on other projects. I’m even getting paid to sext fans as I write; yay to multitasking.

    I’ll eventually get traffic from Google (and already am!). I can take this anywhere I like, from ad revenue, to referral links, to advertising my content. Since I own the sites, I don’t have to worry about being banned. It’s more secure and a way to exponentially grow my brand.

    Note: I’d love to collab with other blog-owning sex workers! Contact me, or visit my guest post page.

    I get to try new adult sites without a dip in my earnings.

    Before I started on SextPanther, I only signed up for new sites under one occasion. If it was slow, I’d venture into other ways of earnings. Now, I get to try new things without fearing a decrease in my earnings.

    After feeling insecure on ManyVids, I decided to sign up for LoyalFans. I scheduled out about a month’s worth of posts and left it.

    In that month, I hit the top 14% of adult content creators on LF. We love new revenue streams!

    What to Do During a Slow-Period on SextPanther?

    It’s not all sunshine and rainbows. Slow periods do happen, and you have to prepare for them.

    Since this blog post centers around my personal experience, I’ll tell you what I do when it’s slow.

    • Get more active on Twitter.
    • Post on PornHub and XHamster.
    • Create and upload *more* videos.
    • Change your work shift.
    • Message old contacts with great offers.
    • Try to sell video bundles.
    • Lower my prices or have a sale.
      • OR
    • Raise my prices. (It can go either way!)
    • Check on what top models are doing.
    • Try a new niche (cuckold, SPH, roleplay, etc.)
    • Don’t post publicly that it’s slow for you.
      • You’re going to attract cheapskates and predators!
    • Take a break and let my brain rest.

    How to Prepare for Slow Season for Adult Content Creators

    Slow seasons shouldn’t catch you off guard. There are ways to survive the winter. If you’re struggling when there’s a dip everyone’s traffic, it might be time to revamp your strategy.

    Here’s how I keep it cool during the slow season:

    • I have 3-6 months of bills saved.
      • My savings account has 5% interest.
    • I invest in stocks and dividends.
      • I get 7-10% yearly on my invested money.
    • Keep a backlog of fresh videos and nudes.
      • Post more frequently when it’s slow.
      • Have a new niche ready to go.
    • Sign up for a new adult site.
    • Keep a list of regulars to message.

    Try not to focus on it being slow. Just show up. I used slow periods as an excuse to not work, and it came back to bite me. When it’s “slow” for some, others are prospering. There’s always money to be made.

    It’s okay to vent, but don’t use it as an excuse!

    Engaging Fans and Building Connections

    Other than LoyalFans, SextPanther is the only adult site I use to get paid to chat with fans. It protects me from burnout and helps me filter out timewasters.

    Also, clients want to pay to talk to pornstars, camgirls, and popular creators. They love the exclusivity and opportunity for your attention. So, when I get the opportunity for a paid chat with a fan, I take full advantage of it.

    I keep track of their preferences.

    • Do they prefer videos, audio, customs, ratings, etc.?
    • When are they online?
    • How often and how much do they tip?
    • What exactly gets them off?

    Then, I create special content or texts based off of those preferences. Many times, they feel flattered that I remembered things about them. That’s the key to keeping a long-term client versus a one-off paid sexting session.

    Would I Have Grown Without SextPanther?

    I have no idea. My first instinct is to say no. The premium sexting site really helped me find my footing and launch my career.

    I’ve seen real growth this year instead of being stagnant. Do I completely rely on it for money? No, I try to diversify as much as possible. But, it’s safe to say that they were my catalyst.

    Will SextPanther be your catalyst too? I hope so! I know that it was also lifechanging for my friend @SabrinnaScott and a couple of other adult content creators whom I’ve recommended SextPanther.

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    Hopefully, you learn from my experience and get your bag. If you have any questions, feel free to leave a comment or contact me directly.

    Did this article help you? Consider signing up to SextPanther via my referral code. It doesn’t take any money out of your pocket. But, SP does pay me 5% for every creator I refer. It’s not an obligation; just a small way to say thank you for the advice.

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  • The Banhammer Cometh: How to Evade a Chaturbate Ban

    Everyone makes mistakes, and depending on the severity, you might get a second chance. Did you mess up your introduction to a model and get the banhammer? Or, you said something that went against the terms of service and receive the dreaded Chaturbate ban?

    Keep calm. I’m a Chaturbate model who’s here to help. The camsite has even banned me a couple of times, and I successfully appealed it with their support team. I’ve also been banned from models’ rooms when they thought I had bad intentions, and I’ve accidentally banned good viewers from my room. So, you should consider me the banhammer expert.

    Whatever your issue, I have advice to steer you in the right direction.

    Scroll to figure out how to get unbanned from your favorite streamer’s room (or the entire camsite).

    Did the Actual Camsite Chaturbate Ban You?

    If you’re looking for advice on being banned from a cam models’ room, scroll to the next heading. This section is about being unbanned from Chaturbate itself. 

    Getting banned on Chaturbate is sudden and unexpected. They won’t send you an email. Rather, the next time you log in, you’ll be notified that you’ve been blocked from their site. To add to the confusion, they almost never explain why.

    There are a few negatives to being banned on Chaturbate. Firstly, you’ll lose every piece of content purchased on that account. All of your saved messages, nudes, and xxx videos will be gone. Secondly, anyone you follow, you will have to find again. That’s a problem if you follow hundreds of models. I can keep listing the issues with receiving a permaban, but I’m sure you get it.

    Before you try to appeal the ban, ask yourself the following questions.

    Are You a Notorious Rule Breaker on Chaturbate?

    The rules on most popular camsites are pretty straightforward, but viewers often find themselves trying to bypass them. You might get away with it the first few times. Eventually, your luck will run out.

    One thing that confuses members: even roleplaying these things is against the terms of service. You cannot mention them at all. The boundary pushers have a real issue with this, and that’s where they get into trouble.

    Read the rules before you try to appeal your ban:

    • No minors, no users under 18.
    • No meetups.
    • Harrassing and threatening the cam models is bad.
    • Illegal activity (drugs, incest, beastiality, etc.) is prohibited.
    • Raceplay and racism is a no.
    • Extreme violence, including asking for blood, choking, CNC, knives, and guns will get you banned.

    Breaking these rules means that there’s a strong chance that you won’t be able to recover your account. Try to appeal with the support team with an apology explaining your ignorance, but keep your expectations in check.

    Was Your Account Reported and Banned on Chaturbate?

    False reports happen all the time. You’re in a public chatroom with other jealous members, and they’re report-happy to get you away from their favorite model. It’s possible that you were reported and received a ban on Chaturbate by mistake.

    Sometimes, CB relies on an AI to do the heavy lifting for them. The AI might take multiple reports as a reason to block your account, even if you’re innocent. It’s a good idea to message their support team to get human eyes on your case. If you didn’t break any rules, they’ll more than likely lift the block on your profile.

    Have You Logged into the Camsite in the Past Year?

    Logging into Chaturbate frequently is necessary to avoid getting banned. But, it’s fortunately easy to appeal. This is simply a way to keep your credit card information safe, and support never took too long to bring my account back after a time-related ban.

    Here is the fastest way to contact CB to attempt to be unbanned.

    What Can You Do to Reverse a Chaturbate Ban?

    Originally, I thought the only way to reverse being banned on Chaturbate was via their support team. After some research, I found other ways! Read this article by DoNotPay. They seem to be a site that’s on the user’s side, who’s willing to step up for your rights.

    According to them, they’ll draft a letter to put legal pressure on CB. If you’re genuinely distressed or missing out of hundreds of purchases videos or photos, I can see this working. This is especially if you’re innocent.

    While this is a great resource for cam viewers, that is also great news for models. When we get banned from Chaturbate, they keep our tokens. Often, they fail to explain what rules we broke, and even more often, we did nothing wrong. Even I, an extreme stickler when it comes to rules, got a ban from Chaturbate twice.

    Were You Banned From a Cam Model’s Stream?

    You’re not the first or the last member to be banned from a model’s room. It happens all the time for all sorts of reasons, and I’ll go through a few below. While you might be confused, the model’s reasoning might be perfectly clear from her end. As always, respect her boundaries, and don’t be a stalker.

    Reasons Why I Block Users From My Camroom

    My energy is sensitive, plain and simple. If someone gives me the wrong vibe, I’ll ban them. No matter what their intentions are, if I don’t like them, I will not pretend. Some reasons why I’ll ban users from my room include:

    • You said something against the terms of service, and explaining that to you puts my Chaturbate cam model account at risk.
    • I sensed that you’re the type to push boundaries.
    • You insulted one of my other viewers, especially if they’re a big tipper.
    • You expected too much out of me for too little tokens.
    • Something that was said pissed me off or made me uncomfortable.
    • We don’t have the same interests, kinks, or fetishes.

    Most of the time, I’ll give one warning or express my boundaries. When a member chooses to ignore that warning, they get hit with the banhammer.

    Remember, you’re not the only one in my chatroom. I have to conserve my energy to talk to hundreds of members, and dealing with a troll or a viewer with an attitude saps my energy quickly. Rather than deal with it, I simply ban and move on.

    Mistakes Happen: If You’re Innocent, Be Generous and StraightForward

    I have banned users on Chaturbate before accidentally! One case that I recall is that a user I wanted to ban and an innocent tipper had similar usernames. Every letter was the same, and there was one different number. While they may have been the same person, their personalities and kinks/fetishes were so different that I believe it was a weird coincidence.

    When I banned the wrong user, I quickly found out, and he came straight back to my room to thank me for unbanning him. It made me feel bad, but mistakes do happen. Keep this in mind, especially if you’re sure that you’re not a rulebreaker

    Consider Accepting the Chaturbate Ban and Moving On

    We can’t win them all. Sometimes, it’s best for your mental health and the cam model to move on. If she won’t give you an answer, there’s no point in prying. Also, being a legitimate stalker after being banned by a camgirl looks bad for you and could lead to legal consequences. Be the bigger person, and move on from the ban.

    Interested in Some Chaturbate Alternatives?

    While Chaturbate is my personal favorite, there are other great camsites, porn websites, and options for adult entertainment. While you’re waiting for your CB to be unbanned, try some new xxx sites. Whatever catches your fancy, you’re welcome to leave a comment below and ask me anything.

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  • Twitter Downfall: How to Find NSFW Creators After a Porn Ban

    Every Twitter (or X, rather) user is aware of the state of the social media site nowadays. Don’t let bad decisions cockblock you. If you’re a fan of adult content creators, you may have heard us speaking negatively about Elon Musk’s actions. I’ll be straightforward: follow your favorite porn creators anywhere possible.

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    You never know when we’ll wake up, and the CEO will hatch another bird-brained (bird app?) plan. His next endeavors could easily tank the world of porn. (And in my opinion, they definitely have) As soon as we adult content creators stop making money on Twitter, we will jump ship. Don’t wait; be proactive!

    Update: My foresight knows no bounds! I wrote this post weeks ago as of October 12th, 2023, but I decided to post it early. Why? Twitter is flagging NSFW creators and choosing not to show their pages in the For You page or the Follow page.

    I’m not trying to be smug, but I knew something was fishy. I’ll update this blog as more information becomes available.

    More updates will be available at the end of this blog post.

    I’ll give you ideas, words of warning, words of comfort, and tips to keep up with your faves outside of Twitter.

    Follow Porn Creators on Their Free Links.

    Don’t procrastinate. Many porn creators, camgirls, phone sex operators, etc. have websites that allow free follow. If you’re not ready to pay, that’s okay! But, anyone is capable of following their favorite creators for free.

    Find Her Official Website (If She Has One)

    First, look for her official website. She more than likely made that as a backup plan, and it’ll have her most up-to-date links. It’s becoming an adult industry standard to have an official website. So, if you see one, subscribe to her newsletter, put it in your RSS Feed for updates, or check back often.

    The best part about an official website: You should expect it to remain the same basically forever. It’s not common practice to change your domain name, unless you’re doing a full rebrand. In short, expect the creator to use the exact same dot com name for their entire career.

    Free to Follow Porn Websites

    Check if the pornstars you view have a free OnlyFans or PornHub. Those are the popular adult sites that doesn’t require you to pay. While Twitter hosts a more convenient feed, direct follows are the best way to get in touch with individuals.

    Here are some more free porn sites to look for:

    It may be overwhelming to have an account with dozens of different porn websites, but there are solutions. If you’re a younger adult, you may have never heard of an RSS Feed. But, it’s a great way to pull all of your fave porn websites from the web and put them onto one solid feed.

    Just take your link, and add it to the feed. It’ll automatically read new posts for you and have them in one place.

    I use Feeder to read favorite websites for free (with some limits, heads up!).

    Leave a comment if you have suggestions.

    Twitter Alternatives: Find Your Favorite Pornstars on Other Social Media

    It’s common for sex workers to have a backup plan. Most of us have at least two social media accounts, and we try to utilize the same username. For example, find me (Fiestry) on Instagram, Reddit, and Tumblr. I’m not as active on other social media as Twitter, but it were to go up in flames, I’d move to other platforms.

    Other sex workers have the same plan. Look for her on every popular social media, and follow her. Check back to see where she’s most active, and make that your main source to view her updates.

    Keep in mind, her posting habits may be different from X due to the terms of service on each app. (Sadly, nudes and explicit material isn’t allowed on Instagram, and Tumblr is funny about it. Twitter and Reddit are king for explicit nudes)

    Most of the time, it’s easy to find her by:

    • Googling her username
    • Following her mutuals on Instagram, Tumblr, or Reddit; and waiting for her to pop up.

    Other popular Twitter alternatives include:

    • BlueSky Social
    • Mastodon
    • Threads
    • Mastodon
    • Spill

    Ask Adult Content Creators for Their Twitter Alternatives

    Have you tried everything, but you still can’t find alternative websites run by your favorite adult content creators? If her DM’s are open, ask. Or, tag her on Twitter. If she sees it, she’ll be happy to provide you with alternative ways to get in touch.

    Don’t Let Twitter Executives Cockblock You.

    Or rather, the one executive who makes all of the decisions. Be proactive, and start following us now. You never know when the day will come.

    I hope this helps!

    Update October 13th, 2023

    Our engagement bounced back from the NSFW ban scare! This is great news. But, my advice still stands. Be sure that you’re able to find your favorite creators wherever they might be.

    We have no control over social media, and anything can happen at any time.

    Creators, don’t put all of your eggs in one basket.

    Fans, try to at least follow us on backup social media. You don’t have to use it… until you need it. <3