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– FemDom Clip Updates – Talk about BDSM and opinions in the kink community – Write the occassional erotic story – Update my subscribers with news about me, such as features or new ventures. – Create a kinky community for submissive men to Worship me. – Connect with other NSFW adult creators.
It’s what a lot of sex workers use to make money. Many SW’s, especially newbies, don’t have the marketing experience to understand how to draw traffic from other channels.
It’s an easy way to keep in touch with followers and update them on our latest ventures. Plus, social media does bring in new clients.
It also gives us a space to easily interact with our peers since not many people shout “I’m a sex worker, and I need friends” in public.
“Twitter users will no longer be able to link to certain rival social media websites, including what the company described Sunday as “prohibited platforms” Facebook, Instagram and Mastodon.” – Quote From PBS
My biggest concern is, it won’t stop at sex workers. Internet censorship has been on a fast track this last few years, and it’s not going to stop until someone cracks down. Right now, almost all of our politicians are happy to restrict sex workers without a second thought as to what that means for the rest of society.
We’re just the scapegoat. Everyone cheers when the whores are losing and ignore the freedom of speech aspect of the issue.
If we’re getting banned for doing legal work, who do you think is next? Freedom of speech violations won’t stop at sex workers. We’re just how they test the waters to see what they can get away with.
For example, everyone cheered at the SESTA/FOSTA law being passed under the guise of protecting children and human trafficking victims.
But, the hidden aspect of the new law is:
Websites being legally liable for what users post.
Websites can be punished for user content that was posted before the law passed.
Your right to online privacy died with this law. Because of it, Cloud Storage monitors your files, email providers scan your emails, private messages are monitored by the site and/or government; everything that occurs online is monitored.
The law doesn’t have clear language, and because of that, sites and social media reacted by overextending their reach to shadowban or restrict all offensive content (Freedom. Of. Speech.)
Increased sex trafficking because full service sex workers had to go back to pimps or were coerced by people who targeted their desperation.
The “target” of the law was sex traffickers, but *everyone* felt the hit when Craigslist personals, some subreddits, adult-oriented crypto, some dating websites, Google Drive accounts, and dozens of other online services shut down or started restricting their services.
I also read an article years ago about SESTA/FOSTA making it harder for the FBI to track child sex trafficking, but I cannot find it again. Instead of “eliminating” the issue, they just pushed the criminals deeper into the cracks.
What’s my point? Social media is one of the last safe platforms for sex workers to fairly easily make money, especially inexperienced or new ones.
If it ever falls, then there will more than likely be an increase in pimps, sex trafficking, homelessness, etc among SW’s; and I am assuming this because of the data collected from the results of SESTA/FOSTA.
Yes, we will move on to the next site, and the next one, and the next one at first. I even bought a domain and started doing brand deals, collect ad revenue, affiliate marketing, and I’m an investor with a high-yield savings account.
But, I’m 24. The 19-year-old who got kicked out of her house and lives in hotels probably doesn’t understand how to hedge her money like that. And, she literally can’t because she’d have to choose between hedging or eating.
It starts with the whores. When it will be you who’s on the other end of discrimination? Probably sooner than you think.
Note: I tried to make this as clear as possible, but a lot of this is off the top of my head and written very quickly. I was there during SESTA/FOSTA, but that was 4 years ago. I’ll come back later to double check everything I said.
I’m assuming you mean where can you find LoyalFans followers?
The platform has internal discoverability. If you’re active, posting, going live, etc.; they are pushing you to their internal traffic.
Unlike OnlyFans, you don’t have to grind on social media to grow a following (but it does help!). Also, *followers* on LF are free, and *subscribers* are the ones who see your paid content.
Using my profile as an example, I’ll tell you how to convert impressions into followers:
Have a clear, detailed, and well-written profile. It should include your body type, kinks/fetishes, and special little tidbits about you. Be unique and interesting.
Your pinned post should include additional information as well as a short, *unsatisfying* teaser.
Have the *occassional* free post to give them a reason to scroll your page.
Don’t forget that you can link your posts to each other internally. Keep viewers on your page for more than a couple of seconds, and they’re more likely to engage.
Use hashtags. Do your research on the most effective ones on LoyalFans, especially since it’s mostly kink/fetish/FemDom-based.
Post consistently, and don’t act like a bot. My fans love to read whatever fantasy I brewed up that day. Take advantage of your ability to use your words, and get creative.
Offer an incentive for followers and subscribers.
On top of all of these, be consistent. I post daily because I’m a psycho workaholic, but be clear with your followers. Will you post daily, a couple of times a week, monthly? Let them know!
Not everybody is brave enough to share their naughty kinks and fetishes face to face. So, what’s the next best thing? Premium sexting sites are the perfect, anonymous way to find a sexting partner fast.
Sending a dirty text is the best way to communicate your sexual desires.
Who doesn’t love sexting? It’s surprisingly intimate, passes the time when you’re bored, and you get to dive deep into a fantasy. You get to explore yourselves and each other without the full pressure of a sexual encounter.
There are plenty of websites to look for a quick dirty chat. But the top premium sexting sites for men include:
But, I want to emphasize that it’s not about desire, or your levels of attractiveness, or you as a person. The benefits of free vs. paid sexting are simple when you put it in the right perspective.
You want somebody to text *now*.
If you’re in a rush and don’t have a partner, it’s hard to find women to sext. You have to hop on Tinder, Bumble, or any other dating site; go through that nightmare; and when you finally get a match, she’s not down for anything immediate.
Premium sexting is a way to get what you want fast. Most adult content creators offer sexting services, and it’s as easy as clicking a button.
Experience with kinks, fetishes, and fantasies.
You may have found a partner to sext, but is she in the mood? Does she share the same sexual quirks as you? Did she reject one of your more kinky offers?
Models who offer pay-to-sext are lenient, and they usually include a list of kinks and fetishes on their bio or tip menu. You don’t have to guess what she’s into. It’s right there in an easy-to-read format.
Also, her experience with the kink or fetish could introduce you to something new and sexy. She doesn’t have to fake it for your sake.
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When two people spend a lot time getting to know each other, things happen. This causes a lot of anxiety for people who just want to have fun. If things between you and your old texting partner, premium sexting might be the better option.
Professional adult content creators avoid catching feelings. They won’t start blowing up your phone asking where you’ve been or who you’re with. Outside of targeted messages to get you to come back for a fun time, they most likely won’t bother you.
Note: If you’re looking to build a relationship, paid sexts aren’t the right call.
On the other hand, there is the possibility for you to catch feelings. No strings attached goes both ways. It’s okay to foster a genuine connection to boost the fantasy, but it shouldn’t be taken too far. If you’re going to use pay-to-play adult sites, the professionalism goes both ways.
How to Use OnlyFans to Sext Online
One of the top paid websites for a quick sexting session is OnlyFans. While it’s common for users to subscribe, scroll, and log off; there’s the possibility to get more out of your subscription.
When it comes to It’s easy to use, and popular, and most women on the site offer free or paid sexts. You can initiate, and they’ll immediately get the message. No bullshit or beating around the bush; send a quick xxx message any of your favorite OnlyFans girls.
However, a strong fear exists in many members. They’re worried that the model isn’t who she says she is, and it’s a possibility. It’s common for OnlyFans girls with huge followings to hire management companies or assistants to answer their messages. Soon, I’ll show you ways to bypass your fears and prove you’re speaking to the real model.
If OnlyFans isn’t your thing, read about more options below.
SextPanther: The Fast Sexting Site With Real Pornstars
Plenty of xxx websites let you sext online. But, it’s about finding the quickest, best session for your money. For example, my favorite site is SextPanther where I share my naughty fantasies with other horny members.
On SextPanther, you and the model (usually a popular pornstar!) share texts, videos, audio, and pictures. It’s great for getting in touch with highly desired women whose inboxes are flooded due to their popularity.
When you deliver a message on SP, you get to the top of an SP creator’s DM’s for fast replies, and she sees that you’re serious about her.
Learn more about how to approach models on SextPanther.
Why do I consider SextPanther to be a great option for a quick, dirty chat? Every piece of media that is shared, you get to keep. If you like to collect nudes or xxx videos, they stay on your account forever. Unlike Snapchat, you get to look back on your old nudes and enjoy them forever.
The majority of the pornstars and camgirls are fetish and kink friendly too. I’m included in that list. I love the freaks; they’re the most fun.
Every camgirl, pornstar, and adult content creator is a 100% verified model via ID. They also need a decent social media following for approval. For example, they approved me (I assume!) because of my RedGifs Creator of the Month title, as well as my decent following on Twitter, Chaturbate, and ManyVids. Because of those rules, there’s a higher ratio of real adult stars on SextPanther, compared to other pay to sext websites.
To me, that makes it one of the best sexting sites for men with particular fetishes, nude collectors, and casual chatters.
How to Prove She’s a Real Pornstar on SextPanther
As far as I know, few girls use management agencies on this pay-to-sext site. While *I* personally, don’t, I can’t speak for everyone. Here are some ways to prove that she’s real:
Relax, and realize that 100% of the horny girls on SP are ID verified (it’s the law) and ready for you.
Do Verified Models Use Other Sexting Sites?
While SextPanther is a place to reach me fast, I also sext on LoyalFans. Most other models and I allow subscribers to message for free. In this case, it may be a cheaper option for committed sexters.
If you don’t want a premium subscription just to send a sext online, most LoyalFans creators allow their free followers to chat. Whatever your preference, there’s an option out there catered for you.
Do You Recommend Other Sexting Sites?
While SextPanther is one of the best sexting websites, I have heard of others. Some I can recommend, and others I have no experience. I will not recommend a site that I’m inexperienced with, but I can point you in the right directly. However, they all seem trustworthy if you’re concerned about privacy.
Selling sexting services on ManyVids is less popular, but it’s possible. You can navigate to an MV Girl’s Items Store if you want to check for what she offers. I’ve only sexted a handful of guys there, so I’m not sure if that should be your first choice.
Arousr, Adult Friend Finder, and Jerkmate
When it comes to other sexting websites, I’ve personally never signed up for them. I’m unsure of their user experience or how guys feel about them. However, I am adding their names here just in case they interest you.
You might see something you like, who knows!
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While live cams aren’t specifically for sending sexts online, finding the right camgirl is life-changing. I suggest finding a room with fewer viewers, so you get the benefit of one-on-one attention.
There is an option on every live camsite to take the women to a private session. While she does her naughty thing, you can put dirty words in her chatroom to encourage her.
My favorite site is Chaturbate. As a camgirl, I love entertaining a room full of guys, but I don’t mind if one takes me to private. The one-on-one feels more intimate, and it’s sexier that way. It’s easier to focus on one guy’s kinks, and more fun to explore each other.
Models, Camgirls, Pornstars, and Content Creators; Sign up for SextPanther
If you’re interested in signing up for SextPanther as a model, pornstar, camgirl, or content creator; click my referral link. It doesn’t take any money out of your pocket, but it is a simple way to tell me thank you for the suggestion. 🙂
Keep in mind: SP wants you to have a good adult-oriented following before they’ll accept you. If you’ve grown a social media, OnlyFans, PornHub, or other adult website; you should good approved. However, sometimes they reject people for reasons unknown. I’m happy to discuss it with you before you sign up.
