Category: sph

  • Discussing Cheating Fetish – Causes of Kinks

    A few months ago, I wanted to dive into different kinks as fetishes. So, I created a list.

    It’s my goal in these posts and similar ones to dive deeper into those fetishes. Let’s start with cheating – controversial, but it still exists.

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    Cheating, not to be confused with cucking, is the act out going outside of your relationship to get emotional or sexual gratification. In the context of it being a kink or fetish, they get off on the idea of doing so.

    It’s typical for people to sexualize the experiences they have in life. Going by that statement, it’s easy to see why someone may have a cheating fetish. Both women and men can have it.

    Depending on why they do, it may be a type of power play or a way to deal with past events.

    The attraction to a cheating fetish may include:

    • Secrecy
    • The idea of being caught
    • Revenge on your partner
    • Wandering eyes

    There is a difference between having a kink/fetish and being an actual cheater. I’ve had single fans who got off on the idea of cheating.

    The experience is more important in this context.

    On the other hand, homewrecking is also a thing in the BDSM community. These types of people may seek out men/women with partners.

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    Cheating Girlfriend Wants Bigger Cocks – ManyVids Fiestry

    “But for some women, the taboo of somebody else’s partner cheating is a turn on. These women get off on being a so-called temptress, luring men away from their partners.” – Quote From Vice

    Both are misconstrued and lumped in with cuckolding. Cucking is consensual. I’d lump cheating in with noncon in my opinion. This is something I’d like to discuss with other kinksters.

    As a Domme, I shy away from cheating fetish, and it’s something I’ve been trying to learn how to turn it in my favor.

    Mental Domination is my biggest turn on. I understand how cheating and Mental Domme-ing go hand in hand.

    Every once in a while, I’ll get a fan. Like I said before, they’ll be single but get off on cheating. If in their minds, they’re prioritizing getting away with it without their partners knowing, then it’s a form of power exchange.

    Despite it being shamed, and even normalized in society, that’s why I won’t partake with a sub I don’t trust.

    The longer the relationship, the more comfortable I am with opening those doors.

  • What Is the Psychology Behind SPH (Small Penis Humiliation?)

    I think it’s a combination of exposure therapy and being one of the easiest ways to humiliate a man. Humiliation in general is a fetish, and SPH is the male-centric version of that.

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    Be honest. Would your dick even fit?

    While verbal humiliation is my preference, there are also physical ways to humiliate a person’s smaller dick. CBT is a fun way to share that fetish of yours with a good Domme.

    I’m not trying to generalize, but men are obsessed with their dicks. Even if they think it’s useless, they just want you to talk about it and acknowledge it. I also think that SPH takes the pressure off of them being a “sex god” with a power exchange in the woman’s favor.

    Out of all the SPH guys I’ve met, 1/4 of them didn’t even have a small dick. I’m not sure if they were aware, but who am I to ruin our fun?

    Back when I wasn’t comfortable with Domination, I even tried to reason with a few of them. “You know it’s not actually small, right?” They’d ghost lmfao.

    Now, I’ll let them have it. Fun for everyone. 🤭

  • Dick Rating 101 How-to Score a 10/10 Reaction

    A dick rating is a 1 – 10 scale that somebody uses to rate a man’s cock. Depending on the person, they may rate your penis based on size, shape, or girth; but everyone’s style is unique.

    Ever wondered what your favorite pornstar thinks of your manhood? You’re looking for a dick rating. Many adult performers and amateur content creators know what they are, and they’ll happily rate your dick.

    Keep reading to learn how to take the perfect picture how to score a 10/10 dick rating.

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    What Is a Dick Rating?

    A dick rating is what it sounds like. In short, you send a nude photo, and whoever receives it delivers a score or reaction. It’s a popular service that most adult content creators offer. 

    Fun Fact!

    Cock rates were an original idea invented by Destiny Diaz in 2014. With so many men sending unsolicited nudes and asking for an opinion, she found a way for everyone to be happy.

    Almost a decade later, you can ask almost any creator with an OnlyFans, iWantClips, LoyalFans, or other pay-to-play adult site. to do a cock rate. 

    Rate My Cock: Paid Services vs. Free

    This article is written for men or penis-owners who want advice on how to get a dick rating from a pornstar.

    Is it possible to get a free cock rate? Yes. But, I’ve visited these sites myself. There’s a 10/10 chance the person rating you is a man pretending to be a woman. If that’s what you’re into, great! Post to your heart’s (and penis’s) content.

    But, if you want to know who’s rating your dick, especially a pornstar whom you admire, expect to pay.

    A dick rate is a paid service that many online porn creators offer to their fans.  

    The differences in free vs. a paid online dick rate may be:

    • A simple 10/10 score vs. a detailed full video 2 to 5 minutes long.
    • A one-sentence text from a stranger vs. a thoughtful piece of content made special for you.
    • A catfish rating your cock vs. a model who you can physically see live, on video, or in an audio message.

    If quality doesn’t matter to you, be my guest for a free dick rating. But for those who enjoy a more catered experience, we pornstars, camgirls, phone sex operators, and amateur adult content creators are happy to help.

    Know the Different Dick Rate Services

    Depending on your taste, you might want a different type of dick rate. For example, submissive men enjoy humiliation and insults. An honest dick rating would be the performer’s true opinion, and so on. 

    Before you ask, figure out your preferences. Also, I suggest being aware of the adult services a content creator offers. What if she thinks you want to be humiliated, but you actually wanted an honest rate? Be upfront with your expectations, and buy accordingly.

    Basically, don’t ask for something she doesn’t offer and get caught with your pants down. 

    Some cock rating categories to ask for:

    • Honest
    • Dirty Talk
    • Encouragement and Praise
    • Humiliation – SPH
    • First Reaction
    • Paragraph vs. a Number Score vs. a Video Rate

    How to Take Hot Photos for a 10/10 Dick Rating

    Have you ever gotten a bad reaction to your dick pic that hurt your self-esteem? Nine times out of ten, the issue wasn’t your actual junk. It probably had more to do with execution.

    Most guys snap a quick picture of their hard cocks and hit deliver. Truthfully, that always gets less than a 6 out of 10 from me. If you’re so proud of that cock, show me the hottest photo I’ve ever seen.

    Putting effort into your nudes makes both of us horny, so do everything in your power to get that 10/10 dick rating.

    Don’t DM Unwanted Nudes and Expect a Dick Rating

    There is a right way to approach adult content creators, and a wrong way. It’s never okay to DM a picture of your cock without consent. If you haven’t tipped an amateur content creator for her time, do not show her pics of your penis.

    Sending nudes out of the blue isn’t cool, whether or not they’re a seller. Putting a random nude in my inbox is a surefire way to get blocked forever. Really, don’t be that guy. 

    Use Natural Lighting to Enhance Your Dick Photos

    First of all, turn off your flash. A flash isn’t flattering against most subjects, especially not skin. The overhead bulb in your room also isn’t the best. Snap photos with natural, warm or white lighting.

    Basically, don’t use lights that are too harsh or stark against your skin.

    Natural lighting simply looks better. White light is acceptable too if you’re taking pics at night, but natural is best. It’s hard to snap a clear picture in a dark or dim area, so turn on those lights.

    There are many angles to choose from. Mostly, consider what turns us women on. Sometimes, less is more. Be a tease, and you might turn us on more than a full on cock photo ever could. 

    How Does Your Cock Compare to the Others?

    Are you a little nervous for me to see it?

    That’s hot. Who doesn’t want that type of attention from the Domme they crave. Once you send it, it’s in my hands. I’ll tell you exactly what I think.

    I might even compare you to a much better cock. SPH ratings are something that I do often~ Although you’re aware of your genetif failure of a tiny cock, you try anyway.

    Small Penis Humiliation is just as sexy to me. If you’d like to know what I think, ask. Rip off the band aid. You need to hear the truth straight out of my sexy mouth anyways, beta.

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    Be Wary of Your Surroundings

    The bathroom is hardly a space that makes me horny for more. Seeing a dick pic over the toilet is not sexy. If you need privacy, try the bathtub or shower curtain as a background.

    Before using your bathroom mirror for selfies, clean it. It doesn’t have to be fancy or perfect, but clean is necessary. 

    Also, try to avoid messes in the background. For example, piles of laundry and trash distract from the subject. Don’t gross me out. Turn me on instead!

    Stand Out With a Unique Dick Pic

    I’ll be 100% honest. I love peacocking. Seeing how creative a guy gets for my attention is a silly but true turn on for me. This can be anything from the memes he sends to his hilarious replies under my selfies.

    Do something unique to give her something to talk about. Put a little hat on the head or googly eyes on your balls. Write a little note in marker on your stomach for her to read.

    I am half joking, half serious; I’d genuinely love to see something like that.

    Keep in mind, not all performers have my sense of humor. What’s funny to me might be insulting to others, so read the room! 

    Want to make it sexy rather than funny? Send your hard on making a tent in your sweatpants. Or, you can take photos of you hard and glistening after a workout.

    Remove that shirt, and show off your body. You want her to see you so badly, so show her. 

    Can’t stir up anything unique? Just try some different angles. The traditional male nude (from what I’ve seen) is top-down POV, which gets boring. Switch up your angles.

    Really, it needs experimenting, but you’ll find your flattering angles with some trial and error. 

    Fun Dick Pic Angles to Try:

    • Rather than the top-down POV, try bottom-up (think from the floor up, standing over the camera) to show off your length.
    • Take a short video, and do a sexy reveal as you take off your underwear.
    • Get the rest of your body in the picture; show it all off.
    • Compare it to something, like an iPhone or a water bottle (hydration is sexy). 

    Should You Show the Balls; What About Pubes?

    These opinions depend on the adult content creator. You won’t know until you find out, but it doesn’t hurt to ask. Overall, be sure to include everything to get the best dick rating. Try adding a note for her that you do expect certain parts to be factored into the score. 

    If you’re worried about her reaction, scroll her social media, or ask. 

    Personally, I love body hair. Clean shaven bodies aren’t my cup of tea. Happy trails and thick pubes get me going. However, adult content creators aren’t one-size-fits-all. Others might not say the same; it’s all a matter of taste.

    Ready for Your 10/10 Score? Buy a Dick Rating Below

    If you take my advice, there’s a good chance you’ll get you a good dick rating score. Did my porn make you hard? Show me. 😉

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  • Bi Cuckold Blowjob Training – New LoyalFans Clip

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    I’ll teach you how to play with my guests as soon as they walk through the door.

    Cocksucking lessons are good for your beta brain, so don’t forget to practice. That’s why I created a bi cuckold blowjob training to ease you into doing what cucks do best.

    Deepthroating, teasing, spitting, holding your breath; you’ll learn the basics here. Your Goddess has big plans for you, so let’s eliminate that gag reflex ASAP. Don’t forget to swallow. 😉

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    Content Summary:

    One of my favorite kinks is cuckold. There’s something about being the slutty Goddess he’s always desired. Denying, teasing, humiliating; it hits all of the checkpoints for me.

    I truly enjoy it when a man who cares about me watches me get fucked. Usually, the man railing me is bigger and better in every way. But, there’s something even sexier about a cuckold cleaning up the mess.

    So, I realized a series encouraging my cucks to suck off other men. Aren’t I a genius? We’ll put that slutty mouth to good use.

    Pleasing Goddess Fiestry is impossible with your useless dick. We’ll find other ways to make me happy. Let’s start by training that submissive throat.

    Video Length: 5 minutes and 14 seconds

    Behind the Scenes:

    The majority of my new FemDom clips, I filmed in one sitting. On that day, I felt extra Dominant. My urge to humiliate men was so strong, I had to get every second on film.

    I created 7 videos in all:

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  • SPH Domme, Ugly and Small Dicklet – Goddess Fiestry Clip Update

    Never pull your pants down in front of a woman again, you tiny dicked degenerate.

    New Small Penis Humiliation Clip available on ManyVids, LoyalFans, Clips4Sale, and OnlyFans.

    You thought that you’d be able to impress me and my friends, and you thought *wrong*. We know what’s up. Your cock is tiny. Ugly. Useless.

    Quit lying to yourself and stop lying to the women in your life. You must be so eager to disappoint us. You couldn’t wait to show us exactly what makes you a fucking loser.

    Your Cock Is Ugly – POV Small Penis Humiliation

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    Small Penis Humiliation Clip Includes:

    SPH Domme | Small Penis Humiliation | Mean Verbal Humiliation | Laughing at You | Insulting Your Manhood & Ruining Your Pride | Make Yourself Useful, Beta

    Spoiler Alert: Your Shrimp Cock Will Never Be Useful

    The Full Package Financial Domination Finsubs Crave

    Your wallet’s too heavy, and your impulses are too strong. No finsub can hold on to stacks of cash for too long.

    Whatever you have, you’ll give me easily. The money doesn’t belong in your account. You know that you make it for me~

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    Eventually, your Goddess Fiestry will trigger you. And once again, you’ll blow every cent and every drop of cum. It’s an unavoidable canon event.

    Financial Domination is the fetish that makes you cum the hardest, moneyslave.

    This Vid Bundle Includes:

    Cum-Stealing Succubus

    — FinDom Trigger – Sending Is Orgasmic

    — Good Boys Pay Goddess

    — Your Mean FinDom Ex-GF —– No Discount.

    Marked up. Send what you’ve got and more~

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