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Month: February 2025

  • Gooner Babes Drain Your Braincells – XODahliaDee and Fiestry Double Domme Collab

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  • Is It Possible to Be Masculine and Submissive? – Goddess Fiestry

    In short: Yes, it is possible to be masculine and submissive.

    Submission is not a feminine trait. Masculinity is not defined by whether or not a person is Dominant. Topping and bottoming are separate from all four.

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    It is possible to maintain your masculinity while being a submissive man. I look at that type of submission in the context of being subservient towards your partner. Tending to your partner’s needs, anticipating them, and serving them in a way that brings their feminine traits out.

    Masculinity and femininity complement each other well. It’s about finding that energy within yourself and sharing that with a partner.

    How Would I Bring Masculine Traits Out of a Submissive Man?

    It’s up to the confines of your individual relationship. Discuss everything with your sub.

    But, if you’re looking for examples, I can tell you what I do.

    I like to set mantras, self-care routines, and acts of services for my submissives.

    They’d speak or write their mantras, usually revolving around me or our relationship. I also like to sprinkle in self-love and adoration to build up their mental health.

    For self-care routines, that’s a strong preference of mine. I don’t want someone to get so deep into their obsession that they stop taking care of themselves. For submissive men, I think this is essential. Daily showers, a skincare routine, keeping their room tidy, grooming, etc.

    Acts of service are my favorite. I enjoy the thoughtfulness put into every action. My best boys usually do this of their own volition, but I like to tell them to do at least one thing daily that benefits me. That could be anything from public adoration to paying for my dinner. It’s the thought that counts.

    I don’t like to jump into all of this instantly. This is a lot of work to set up, and it takes dedication for both parties. Only a very select few get these privileges, and it’s because we built our relationship up to that point.

    How Do I Express My Feminine Traits While Still Being Dominant?

    Female Domination is not a sexuality. It is a preference and a way to approach intimacy in the context of relationships and sex. You’ve got it backwards if you think anythings making us do FemDom.

    Female Dominance differs from woman to woman. It’s about our desires, needs, preferences. Once we start prioritizing ourselves, it happens naturally.

    In a female led relationship, it may look different than it does in porn. A lot of hardcore mainstream porn is male-centric due to the target audience. Submissive men, especially those with a bit of experience, understand that it’s all about her.

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    Eventually, your Goddess Fiestry will trigger you. And once again, you’ll blow every cent and every drop of cum.

    It’s an unavoidable canon event. Financial Domination is the fetish that makes you cum the hardest, moneyslave.

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  • How Much Money Do Adult Content Creators Earn Through OnlyFans Subscriptions?

    Last I heard, OnlyFans creators below the top 20–30% aren’t making much money.

    The average OnlyFans creator according to Follower Co makes $180 monthly. Another source says that the average is more like $151. That’s a stark difference between them and top OnlyFans creators.

    It’s more than likely because it’s filled to the brim with creators with a low follower count.

    At one point (before I deleted it), I remember making a random $20, and it put me in the top 70%. This was a year and a half ago, and I’m sure the gap has widened with new signups and models at the top getting richer.

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    So, I can say for sure that a decent chunk of creators aren’t even making enough money to even go out to eat.

    Even when I hit 3k followers on Twitter, I wasn’t pulling in more than 30 OnlyFans subscribers in all per month.

    If we consider that a 1% conversion rate, then another OnlyFans creator with 300 Twitter followers would have 3 subscribers. At $5 per month, that’s $15 in subscription profit, not counting PPV, unlocks, and tips.

    Instagram’s conversion rate is much better. So, if we bump that up to 3% (conservative), then 300 Insta followers at 3% conversions would be 9 subscribers or $45 per month in subscription revenue.

    Obviously, that’s not set in stone and would vary, depending on:

    OnlyFans is one of the few adult platforms that doesn’t have internal discoverability. You have to click external links to find somebody’s specific page.

    So, despite its 320 million monthly visits, not all creators get to benefit. If you aren’t able to convert, you’re SOL.

    Once I hit 8k followers and saw my other sites making great money with OF still stagnant, I deleted it. It’s not a great site for starting from the very bottom.

  • Sex Work, NSFW, and Social Media Bans

    TLDR: We need it to make money, and freedom of speech is being squeezed tighter every year.

    I answered this question on Quora first.

    Options Outside of Social Media:

    • RedGifs
    • Sharesome
    • A Website – We have communities of sex workers and Dommes who host their own websites.
    • PornHub
    • XHamster
    • XVideos
    • ArouseVIP – The site has changed over time.
    • Sex.com
    • AmberCutie Forum

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    It’s what a lot of sex workers use to make money. Many SW’s, especially newbies, don’t have the marketing experience to understand how to draw traffic from other channels.

    It’s an easy way to keep in touch with followers and update them on our latest ventures. Plus, social media does bring in new clients.

    It also gives us a space to easily interact with our peers since not many people shout “I’m a sex worker, and I need friends” in public.

    My biggest concern is, it won’t stop at sex workers. Internet censorship has been on a fast track this last few years, and it’s not going to stop until someone cracks down. Right now, almost all of our politicians are happy to restrict sex workers without a second thought as to what that means for the rest of society.

    We’re just the scapegoat. Everyone cheers when the whores are losing and ignore the freedom of speech aspect of the issue.

    If we’re getting banned for doing legal work, who do you think is next? Freedom of speech violations won’t stop at sex workers. We’re just how they test the waters to see what they can get away with.

    For example, everyone cheered at the SESTA/FOSTA law being passed under the guise of protecting children and human trafficking victims.

    But, the hidden aspect of the new law is:

    1. Websites being legally liable for what users post.
    2. Websites can be punished for user content that was posted before the law passed.
    3. Your right to online privacy died with this law. Because of it, Cloud Storage monitors your files, email providers scan your emails, private messages are monitored by the site and/or government; everything that occurs online is monitored.
    4. The law doesn’t have clear language, and because of that, sites and social media reacted by overextending their reach to shadowban or restrict all offensive content (Freedom. Of. Speech.)
    5. Making it harder for sex workers to screen clients, resulting in more deaths, targeted harrassment, and assaults.
    6. Increased sex trafficking because full service sex workers had to go back to pimps or were coerced by people who targeted their desperation.
    7. The “target” of the law was sex traffickers, but *everyone* felt the hit when Craigslist personals, some subreddits, adult-oriented crypto, some dating websites, Google Drive accounts, and dozens of other online services shut down or started restricting their services.

    I also read an article years ago about SESTA/FOSTA making it harder for the FBI to track child sex trafficking, but I cannot find it again. Instead of “eliminating” the issue, they just pushed the criminals deeper into the cracks.

    What’s my point? Social media is one of the last safe platforms for sex workers to fairly easily make money, especially inexperienced or new ones.

    If it ever falls, then there will more than likely be an increase in pimps, sex trafficking, homelessness, etc among SW’s; and I am assuming this because of the data collected from the results of SESTA/FOSTA.

    Yes, we will move on to the next site, and the next one, and the next one at first. I even bought a domain and started doing brand deals, collect ad revenue, affiliate marketing, and I’m an investor with a high-yield savings account.

    But, I’m 24. The 19-year-old who got kicked out of her house and lives in hotels probably doesn’t understand how to hedge her money like that. And, she literally can’t because she’d have to choose between hedging or eating.

    It starts with the whores. When it will be you who’s on the other end of discrimination? Probably sooner than you think.

    Note: I tried to make this as clear as possible, but a lot of this is off the top of my head and written very quickly. I was there during SESTA/FOSTA, but that was 4 years ago. I’ll come back later to double check everything I said.

  • Where Can You Find New LoyalFans Followers? – Adult Content Creators

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    I’m assuming you mean where can you find LoyalFans followers?

    The platform has internal discoverability. If you’re active, posting, going live, etc.; they are pushing you to their internal traffic.

    Unlike OnlyFans, you don’t have to grind on social media to grow a following (but it does help!). Also, *followers* on LF are free, and *subscribers* are the ones who see your paid content.

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    Using my profile as an example, I’ll tell you how to convert impressions into followers:

    1. Have a clear, detailed, and well-written profile. It should include your body type, kinks/fetishes, and special little tidbits about you. Be unique and interesting.
    2. Your pinned post should include additional information as well as a short, *unsatisfying* teaser.
    3. Have the *occassional* free post to give them a reason to scroll your page.
    4. Don’t forget that you can link your posts to each other internally. Keep viewers on your page for more than a couple of seconds, and they’re more likely to engage.
    5. Use hashtags. Do your research on the most effective ones on LoyalFans, especially since it’s mostly kink/fetish/FemDom-based.
    6. Post consistently, and don’t act like a bot. My fans love to read whatever fantasy I brewed up that day. Take advantage of your ability to use your words, and get creative.
    7. Offer an incentive for followers and subscribers.

    On top of all of these, be consistent. I post daily because I’m a psycho workaholic, but be clear with your followers. Will you post daily, a couple of times a week, monthly? Let them know!

  • Premium Sexting: Best Paid Sites to Share Your Fantasies

    Not everybody is brave enough to share their naughty kinks and fetishes face to face. So, what’s the next best thing? Premium sexting sites are the perfect, anonymous way to find a sexting partner fast.

    Sending a dirty text is the best way to communicate your sexual desires.

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    Who doesn’t love sexting? It’s surprisingly intimate, passes the time when you’re bored, and you get to dive deep into a fantasy. You get to explore yourselves and each other without the full pressure of a sexual encounter.

    There are plenty of websites to look for a quick dirty chat. But the top premium sexting sites for men include:

    – Jerkmate

    – OnlyFans

    – SextPanther

    – Arousr

    – Free Cams (Chaturbate, StripChat, Streamate)

    The Benefits of Free vs. Paid Sexting

    A lot of men turn up their noses at the thought of paying. That’s valid! You want to feel desirable enough for women to want you without your money involved. 

    But, I want to emphasize that it’s not about desire, or your levels of attractiveness, or you as a person. The benefits of free vs. paid sexting are simple when you put it in the right perspective.

    • You want somebody to text *now*.

    If you’re in a rush and don’t have a partner, it’s hard to find women to sext. You have to hop on Tinder, Bumble, or any other dating site; go through that nightmare; and when you finally get a match, she’s not down for anything immediate.

    Premium sexting is a way to get what you want fast. Most adult content creators offer sexting services, and it’s as easy as clicking a button. 

    • Experience with kinks, fetishes, and fantasies.

    You may have found a partner to sext, but is she in the mood? Does she share the same sexual quirks as you? Did she reject one of your more kinky offers?

    Models who offer pay-to-sext are lenient, and they usually include a list of kinks and fetishes on their bio or tip menu. You don’t have to guess what she’s into. It’s right there in an easy-to-read format.

    Also, her experience with the kink or fetish could introduce you to something new and sexy. She doesn’t have to fake it for your sake.

    • No strings attached sexting

    When two people spend a lot time getting to know each other, things happen. This causes a lot of anxiety for people who just want to have fun. If things between you and your old texting partner, premium sexting might be the better option.

    Professional adult content creators avoid catching feelings. They won’t start blowing up your phone asking where you’ve been or who you’re with. Outside of targeted messages to get you to come back for a fun time, they most likely won’t bother you. 

    • Note: If you’re looking to build a relationship, paid sexts aren’t the right call.

    On the other hand, there is the possibility for you to catch feelings. No strings attached goes both ways. It’s okay to foster a genuine connection to boost the fantasy, but it shouldn’t be taken too far. If you’re going to use pay-to-play adult sites, the professionalism goes both ways. 

    How to Use OnlyFans to Sext Online

    One of the top paid websites for a quick sexting session is OnlyFans. While it’s common for users to subscribe, scroll, and log off; there’s the possibility to get more out of your subscription.

    When it comes to It’s easy to use, and popular, and most women on the site offer free or paid sexts. You can initiate, and they’ll immediately get the message. No bullshit or beating around the bush; send a quick xxx message any of your favorite OnlyFans girls.

    However, a strong fear exists in many members. They’re worried that the model isn’t who she says she is, and it’s a possibility. It’s common for OnlyFans girls with huge followings to hire management companies or assistants to answer their messages. Soon, I’ll show you ways to bypass your fears and prove you’re speaking to the real model.

    If OnlyFans isn’t your thing, read about more options below.

    SextPanther: The Fast Sexting Site With Real Pornstars

    Plenty of xxx websites let you sext online. But, it’s about finding the quickest, best session for your money. For example, my favorite site is SextPanther where I share my naughty fantasies with other horny members.

    On SextPanther, you and the model (usually a popular pornstar!) share texts, videos, audio, and pictures. It’s great for getting in touch with highly desired women whose inboxes are flooded due to their popularity.

    When you deliver a message on SP, you get to the top of an SP creator’s DM’s for fast replies, and she sees that you’re serious about her.

    Learn more about how to approach models on SextPanther.

    Fiestry profile on SextPanther reads: 24 & 5’3 switch ❗️ SIZE QUEEN❗️big tits & a big ass. Cucks, betas, human wallets, and losers are welcome to test their luck 🤭 Dirty talk, playful & mean teasing, roleplay, SPH, CEI, JOI, cheating fantasy, chastity, edging 😈 Love to chat & send audio. 👅 Custom videos & dick ratings OPEN. Add me & send a message now.

    Why do I consider SextPanther to be a great option for a quick, dirty chat? Every piece of media that is shared, you get to keep. If you like to collect nudes or xxx videos, they stay on your account forever. Unlike Snapchat, you get to look back on your old nudes and enjoy them forever.

    The majority of the pornstars and camgirls are fetish and kink friendly too. I’m included in that list. I love the freaks; they’re the most fun.

    Every camgirl, pornstar, and adult content creator is a 100% verified model via ID. They also need a decent social media following for approval. For example, they approved me (I assume!) because of my RedGifs Creator of the Month title, as well as my decent following on Twitter, Chaturbate, and ManyVids. Because of those rules, there’s a higher ratio of real adult stars on SextPanther, compared to other pay to sext websites.

    To me, that makes it one of the best sexting sites for men with particular fetishes, nude collectors, and casual chatters.

    How to Prove She’s a Real Pornstar on SextPanther

    As far as I know, few girls use management agencies on this pay-to-sext site. While *I* personally, don’t, I can’t speak for everyone. Here are some ways to prove that she’s real:

    • Ask her for an audio message saying your username
    • Request a homemade “in-the-moment” clip
    • Ask her for custom porn
    • Hop in a phone sex session or video call
    • Relax, and realize that 100% of the horny girls on SP are ID verified (it’s the law) and ready for you.

    Do Verified Models Use Other Sexting Sites?

    While SextPanther is a place to reach me fast, I also sext on LoyalFans. Most other models and I allow subscribers to message for free. In this case, it may be a cheaper option for committed sexters.

    If you don’t want a premium subscription just to send a sext online, most LoyalFans creators allow their free followers to chat. Whatever your preference, there’s an option out there catered for you.

    Do You Recommend Other Sexting Sites?

    While SextPanther is one of the best sexting websites, I have heard of others. Some I can recommend, and others I have no experience. I will not recommend a site that I’m inexperienced with, but I can point you in the right directly. However, they all seem trustworthy if you’re concerned about privacy.

    (Reminder: Trustpilot is your friend.)

    Using ManyVids for Premium Sexting

    Selling sexting services on ManyVids is less popular, but it’s possible. You can navigate to an MV Girl’s Items Store if you want to check for what she offers. I’ve only sexted a handful of guys there, so I’m not sure if that should be your first choice.

    Arousr, Adult Friend Finder, and Jerkmate

    When it comes to other sexting websites, I’ve personally never signed up for them. I’m unsure of their user experience or how guys feel about them. However, I am adding their names here just in case they interest you.

    You might see something you like, who knows!

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    Do you want to elevate your xxx messaging? Live cams support 100% anonymous sexting online, and you physically see exactly who you’re talking to.

    While live cams aren’t specifically for sending sexts online, finding the right camgirl is life-changing. I suggest finding a room with fewer viewers, so you get the benefit of one-on-one attention.

    There is an option on every live camsite to take the women to a private session. While she does her naughty thing, you can put dirty words in her chatroom to encourage her.

    My favorite site is Chaturbate. As a camgirl, I love entertaining a room full of guys, but I don’t mind if one takes me to private. The one-on-one feels more intimate, and it’s sexier that way. It’s easier to focus on one guy’s kinks, and more fun to explore each other.

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    Models, Camgirls, Pornstars, and Content Creators; Sign up for SextPanther

    If you’re interested in signing up for SextPanther as a model, pornstar, camgirl, or content creator; click my referral link. It doesn’t take any money out of your pocket, but it is a simple way to tell me thank you for the suggestion. 🙂

    Keep in mind: SP wants you to have a good adult-oriented following before they’ll accept you. If you’ve grown a social media, OnlyFans, PornHub, or other adult website; you should good approved. However, sometimes they reject people for reasons unknown. I’m happy to discuss it with you before you sign up.

  • Male Service Subs: How You Make Yourself Useful

    Update: 2/22/2025 – Scroll to the video editing portion

    As a male service sub, it’s 100% possible to be useful. Women have needs, and it’s your life’s purpose to fulfill them.

    One of two types of submissive men are reading this. Whether you’re one or the other depends on the intention behind your “acts of service”.

    My inbox is filled to the brim with eager service-oriented submissive men. You all want a piece of Goddess, but my presence is limited. I spend my time on the submissive men who earned it.

    Coming soon…

    The ones who waste their first impression on “hi” get ignored.

    Quit wasting my time on useless “acts of service”. The ones who are eager to please understand exactly what I’m saying. Here, you’ll get the keys to the castle.

    Read the table of contents for tips and tricks on how to actually serve a female Domme.

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    My FemDom Pet Peeve: Male “Service” Subs

    There is the male service-oriented submissive, and then there are “service” subs.

    The difference is start. One is a good boy who enjoys pleasing women. He craves the ability to serve women. In fact, he doesn’t think he deserves her attention until he commits an act of service.

    You say that you’re ready to serve until you meet a Goddess like me~

    It’s such a sweet way to think.

    You take the time out of your day to do something that’s important to her. The thought of failing at that task genuinely makes you anxious. It’s all about pleasing her, and it’s equally sexy as it is beautiful.

    The “service” subs have a different strategy.

    They see all of this FemDom content online. Eventually, they stumble across a Goddess whose image is perfect for his weakling male fantasy.

    Is he even submissive, or is he obsessed with jerking off to mean women?

    Eventually, he has the audacity to be a timewaster, offering something useless and irrelevant. Never money. Always something that benefits him more than her.

    The focus is not on truly helping her. Rather, it revolves around jerking off and cumming. There is zero value in that, and it’s annoying to have to deal with.

    What Counts As Acts of Service to a Goddess?

    I can only use myself as an example. Other Dommes and Goddesses have different preferences.

    So, what do I find useful?

    To me, the most satisfying thing any man can do is save me time. Every minute of my day is accounted for. Being a timewaster has negative value. But, gifting time is an act of service that brings true value to me.

    What are the biggest time-suckers for me?

    • Forgetting important things until last-minute.
    • Research for my blog and social media
    • Organizing
    • Market analysis and data logging
    • When I’m burnt out, creating captions and video ideas

    ADHD Dommes are real. We’re still hot. We just can’t remember shit, or we procrastinate. :’)

    A List of Skills That I Would Find Useful

    • SEO
    • Marketing
      • Especially A/B Testing
    • Teaching and Learning
      • Especially sorting out equations
    • Proofreading
    • Reading Analytics and Data
    • *coughs and whispers* (((DataScraping)))
    • Understands Coding Languages (HTML, Python, Java, etc.)
    • Market Research
    • Investing (Stocks, ETF’s, etc.)
    • Finding Holes in My Strategies (Respectfully, of course~)
    • Finding Mistakes on My Pages
    • Creativity and Brainstorming
    • Sometimes, I don’t know what I need until I see it. Present yourself with a respectful inquiry. I may find something for you that you wouldn’t have thought of without my God-like creativity.

    Are you reading anything in this list and think, “Hey, I actually know how to do that.”? I’m talking to you. Let’s chat. 😉

    I’m waiting~ Come inside.

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    Notice what’s not in there? Cleaning, cooking, being a piece of furniture, or doing something for the purpose of you jerking off.

    If you want me to fulfill the fantasy in your head, pay for it.

    Otherwise, don’t pretend to be serving me.

    What Does Not Count as an Act of Service?

    A male “service sub” offering “services” for the purpose of jerking off and not completing the task.

    I have a recent example.

    A brand new sub recently approached me, zero tribute in hand, and said this:

    “Greetings Goddess, I’m a Video Editing/Graphic Design slave, I can edit videos, design any kind of graphics, or work on anything visuals/tech related! Here is a list of stuff I can do: -edit videos -make previews -subtitle videos -design menus -banners -posters -watermarks(or any graphics) Please let me know if you or anyone else requires any of my services for anything at all! Thank you so much for your time Goddess!”~ Quoth From a True Loser

    Here are the issues I have with this sterling inquiry:

    • I didn’t express any need for a video editing or graphic design slave.

    I do spend hours editing my best FemDom videos, but it’s for a reason. My style is specific, hard to replicate, and has a certain flow.

    Update: 2/22/2025 – Somebody read this blog post and came up with the sweetest idea. It worked. Unfortunately, you have a group of people who love stealing ideas, and who actively tried to destroy the quality of my content.

    You should keep an eye out for whoever that is – definitely a programmer – and watch your back. Because they are actively trying to blame you for having perfect code.

    I’d hate for that to affect your job.

    It could be a simple copyright issue, but I see it being lawsuit level due to the damages I and other models have suffered.

    Everyone who’s a reputable author signs their name. This person purposefully removes their name and messes up the program. <3

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    Intro to Goon is my best example. It took 6 hours to edit. The payoff was fantastic because it sold 100x more than my average FemDom clip. But, I do not think that a random sub could pull this off.

    It’s true that I don’t always have the energy to create a clip this detailed. That’s not my point. I’m saying that once the creativity starts flowing, it does not stop until I’m satisfied with the results.

    I’m never afraid to be weird, out of the ordinary, or shocking. That’s a big part of my creativity. The creative process is my favorite part about creating FemDom content.

    Therefore, I have no need for a video editing and graphic design slave.

    Alongside writing and creating random stories for videos, that’s my favorite part. Why would I let a random slave have the fun? Ew.

    • Subtitles are an important thing that my FemDom clips lack, but that would require he watch them for free.

    I type over 170+ WPM with near perfection.

    Adding subtitles to my videos is something that I’m capable of. On top of that, I used to work for a captioning company that will subtitle my videos for cheap, and that’s what I intend to use when it feels right.

    There is no reason to trust a random sub with my content. We have never spoken before. Anyone can label themselves as a “video editing and graphic design slave” to get free content.

    • Where the hell was his portfolio?

    Speaking of anyone being able to call themselves a service slave, here’s my big point. He had no portfolio. His Twitter was private. Only one brand new Domme recommended him, and he designed her Twitter banner. (I didn’t like it.)

    I shouldn’t have to hold your hand while you make a pitch.

    A professional video editor and graphic designer would know to have a portfolio ready at the snap of a finger. That’s what I do as a writer, but perhaps common sense is rare nowadays.

    • I have never talked to this random man.

    The ability to serve me is a privilege earned over time.

    I am a control freak. It’s why I love Dominating men who are incapable of controlling themselves.

    To put it simply, I don’t trust anyone with anything valuable. That’s something that needs to be proven with obedience, dedication, and a will to serve.

    So far, only one of hundreds have pulled that off, and I still give him tiny tasks that I monitor closely with detailed instructions.

    He made it a solid point to express his competence. It took me 4 weeks to give him an actual task that would bring value to my life, and it made him so happy that I decided to do so. I’m getting off topic, but I <3 praising my good competent boy.

    His reply to my points? Let’s read.

    No Goddess… I’m a broke college sub so I can’t serve dommes financially, therefore I try and be of any use I can by offering my services, however I won’t be able to buy the videos Goddess I’m sorryQuoth from a Broke True Loser

    He did not offer to:

    • Prove himself with smaller tasks
    • Earn my trust
    • Show me a portfolio
    • Send a small tribute as a happy medium (I say this like I’d be willing to compromise, but I probably wouldn’t lol.)
    • Give me something more valuable

    He simply rolled over and proved to me that he was useless. *gag*

    Are You Addicted to “Good Boy?”

    Hopefully, my short guide taught you something new. Or, it inspired you. 😉

    Acts of service are excellent.

    But, you’re reading the words of a Goddess who controls every aspect of her tightly booked life. Why would I give up a little piece of control to satiate a man’s dick? Ew.

    If you want to prove yourself as a truly useful male service sub, I’m all ears.

    There are small things to do to please me, and larger things. It depends on your level of competence, our mutual trust, and time spent together.

    Will you disappear if I don’t answer for a week?

    Do you need constant timewasting attention that does nothing for me?

    Will you be gone in a month, moving on to the next Domme who will give you a sliver of attention?

    ~Stay away from me. I do not want you as a service submissive.~

    You’re welcome to approach as a temporary plaything, but be honest. You will not earn the ability to truly serve me until I deem you competent, reliable, and consistent.

    Are You Willing to Serve Financially, but Don’t Have the Money?

    First of all, if you truly can’t afford a $20 tribute, you need to get off of the internet.

    I’ve talked about this before, but Financial Domination isn’t about huge tributes for me. To me, it’s about the aspect of control. If a finsub makes sacrifices for me, then $20 can be just as hot as a bigger send.

    Don’t use that as an excuse to only send small, and listen to the point. It’s about the time that you put into that $20.

    What’s that send worth to you? 2 hours of your life, gone straight to my bank account? Then it’s hot.

    Do you beg for payday to come sooner, so you can earn 2 minutes of conversation with me? You tribute, get small talk out of me, can’t afford more, and repeat every week? That type of devotion is hot as fuck too.

    Here are some financial ways to serve your Goddess. Remember that it’s all about the obedience, the sacrifice, and the dedication towards serving me:

    • Sign up for a survey app. Use it in your free time, and give me the money.
    • Would you usually spend your night relaxing and watching TV? Sacrifice that time to DoorDash and UberEats, and tribute your tips.
    • If you send a small tribute, beg to send me more.
    • Is your FinDom addiction paired with an exposure fetish? Hop on a camsite like Chaturbate, and give me the tokens you earn.
    • A daily coffee send means a lot, and it’s the best way to let me see that you think about me every morning.
    • You can Google “side hustle” or “make money online” and find a million other ideas.

    Do You Lack Any Useful Skills? That’s the Point of Having Money.

    The fake male service submissive has one goal: Get out of spending money.

    That is never going to please a woman. Being concerned with the status of your cock will get you blocked.

    If you have zero useful skills, there is one true way to please a Goddess.

    Tributes are the only option for you. Otherwise, you’re hopping from Domme to Domme, begging for attention that you do not deserve.

    And you wonder why you’re so lonely?

    Unfulfilled?

    You wonder why you can’t find the perfect Goddess girlfriend?

    Look in the mirror, and quit being a bitch. Get another job, a side hustle, start investing; and start serving. Otherwise, you do not exist to me.

    Quit Being Useless. Tribute and Serve.

  • Dick Rating 101 How-to Score a 10/10 Reaction

    A dick rating is a 1 – 10 scale that somebody uses to rate a man’s cock. Depending on the person, they may rate your penis based on size, shape, or girth; but everyone’s style is unique.

    Ever wondered what your favorite pornstar thinks of your manhood? You’re looking for a dick rating. Many adult performers and amateur content creators know what they are, and they’ll happily rate your dick.

    Keep reading to learn how to take the perfect picture how to score a 10/10 dick rating.

    via RedGIFs

    What Is a Dick Rating?

    A dick rating is what it sounds like. In short, you send a nude photo, and whoever receives it delivers a score or reaction. It’s a popular service that most adult content creators offer. 

    Fun Fact!

    Cock rates were an original idea invented by Destiny Diaz in 2014. With so many men sending unsolicited nudes and asking for an opinion, she found a way for everyone to be happy.

    Almost a decade later, you can ask almost any creator with an OnlyFans, iWantClips, LoyalFans, or other pay-to-play adult site. to do a cock rate. 

    Rate My Cock: Paid Services vs. Free

    This article is written for men or penis-owners who want advice on how to get a dick rating from a pornstar.

    Is it possible to get a free cock rate? Yes. But, I’ve visited these sites myself. There’s a 10/10 chance the person rating you is a man pretending to be a woman. If that’s what you’re into, great! Post to your heart’s (and penis’s) content.

    But, if you want to know who’s rating your dick, especially a pornstar whom you admire, expect to pay.

    A dick rate is a paid service that many online porn creators offer to their fans.  

    The differences in free vs. a paid online dick rate may be:

    • A simple 10/10 score vs. a detailed full video 2 to 5 minutes long.
    • A one-sentence text from a stranger vs. a thoughtful piece of content made special for you.
    • A catfish rating your cock vs. a model who you can physically see live, on video, or in an audio message.

    If quality doesn’t matter to you, be my guest for a free dick rating. But for those who enjoy a more catered experience, we pornstars, camgirls, phone sex operators, and amateur adult content creators are happy to help.

    Know the Different Dick Rate Services

    Depending on your taste, you might want a different type of dick rate. For example, submissive men enjoy humiliation and insults. An honest dick rating would be the performer’s true opinion, and so on. 

    Before you ask, figure out your preferences. Also, I suggest being aware of the adult services a content creator offers. What if she thinks you want to be humiliated, but you actually wanted an honest rate? Be upfront with your expectations, and buy accordingly.

    Basically, don’t ask for something she doesn’t offer and get caught with your pants down. 

    Some cock rating categories to ask for:

    • Honest
    • Dirty Talk
    • Encouragement and Praise
    • Humiliation – SPH
    • First Reaction
    • Paragraph vs. a Number Score vs. a Video Rate

    How to Take Hot Photos for a 10/10 Dick Rating

    Have you ever gotten a bad reaction to your dick pic that hurt your self-esteem? Nine times out of ten, the issue wasn’t your actual junk. It probably had more to do with execution.

    Most guys snap a quick picture of their hard cocks and hit deliver. Truthfully, that always gets less than a 6 out of 10 from me. If you’re so proud of that cock, show me the hottest photo I’ve ever seen.

    Putting effort into your nudes makes both of us horny, so do everything in your power to get that 10/10 dick rating.

    Don’t DM Unwanted Nudes and Expect a Dick Rating

    There is a right way to approach adult content creators, and a wrong way. It’s never okay to DM a picture of your cock without consent. If you haven’t tipped an amateur content creator for her time, do not show her pics of your penis.

    Sending nudes out of the blue isn’t cool, whether or not they’re a seller. Putting a random nude in my inbox is a surefire way to get blocked forever. Really, don’t be that guy. 

    Use Natural Lighting to Enhance Your Dick Photos

    First of all, turn off your flash. A flash isn’t flattering against most subjects, especially not skin. The overhead bulb in your room also isn’t the best. Snap photos with natural, warm or white lighting.

    Basically, don’t use lights that are too harsh or stark against your skin.

    Natural lighting simply looks better. White light is acceptable too if you’re taking pics at night, but natural is best. It’s hard to snap a clear picture in a dark or dim area, so turn on those lights.

    There are many angles to choose from. Mostly, consider what turns us women on. Sometimes, less is more. Be a tease, and you might turn us on more than a full on cock photo ever could. 

    How Does Your Cock Compare to the Others?

    Are you a little nervous for me to see it?

    That’s hot. Who doesn’t want that type of attention from the Domme they crave. Once you send it, it’s in my hands. I’ll tell you exactly what I think.

    I might even compare you to a much better cock. SPH ratings are something that I do often~ Although you’re aware of your genetif failure of a tiny cock, you try anyway.

    Small Penis Humiliation is just as sexy to me. If you’d like to know what I think, ask. Rip off the band aid. You need to hear the truth straight out of my sexy mouth anyways, beta.

    A tip from a fan on SextPanther to Fiestry "for being the best teacher"

    Be Wary of Your Surroundings

    The bathroom is hardly a space that makes me horny for more. Seeing a dick pic over the toilet is not sexy. If you need privacy, try the bathtub or shower curtain as a background.

    Before using your bathroom mirror for selfies, clean it. It doesn’t have to be fancy or perfect, but clean is necessary. 

    Also, try to avoid messes in the background. For example, piles of laundry and trash distract from the subject. Don’t gross me out. Turn me on instead!

    Stand Out With a Unique Dick Pic

    I’ll be 100% honest. I love peacocking. Seeing how creative a guy gets for my attention is a silly but true turn on for me. This can be anything from the memes he sends to his hilarious replies under my selfies.

    Do something unique to give her something to talk about. Put a little hat on the head or googly eyes on your balls. Write a little note in marker on your stomach for her to read.

    I am half joking, half serious; I’d genuinely love to see something like that.

    Keep in mind, not all performers have my sense of humor. What’s funny to me might be insulting to others, so read the room! 

    Want to make it sexy rather than funny? Send your hard on making a tent in your sweatpants. Or, you can take photos of you hard and glistening after a workout.

    Remove that shirt, and show off your body. You want her to see you so badly, so show her. 

    Can’t stir up anything unique? Just try some different angles. The traditional male nude (from what I’ve seen) is top-down POV, which gets boring. Switch up your angles.

    Really, it needs experimenting, but you’ll find your flattering angles with some trial and error. 

    Fun Dick Pic Angles to Try:

    • Rather than the top-down POV, try bottom-up (think from the floor up, standing over the camera) to show off your length.
    • Take a short video, and do a sexy reveal as you take off your underwear.
    • Get the rest of your body in the picture; show it all off.
    • Compare it to something, like an iPhone or a water bottle (hydration is sexy). 

    Should You Show the Balls; What About Pubes?

    These opinions depend on the adult content creator. You won’t know until you find out, but it doesn’t hurt to ask. Overall, be sure to include everything to get the best dick rating. Try adding a note for her that you do expect certain parts to be factored into the score. 

    If you’re worried about her reaction, scroll her social media, or ask. 

    Personally, I love body hair. Clean shaven bodies aren’t my cup of tea. Happy trails and thick pubes get me going. However, adult content creators aren’t one-size-fits-all. Others might not say the same; it’s all a matter of taste.

    Ready for Your 10/10 Score? Buy a Dick Rating Below

    If you take my advice, there’s a good chance you’ll get you a good dick rating score. Did my porn make you hard? Show me. 😉

    Order a Dick Rating

  • To My New HumanATM, Let’s Play a Game

    I tell you my daily schedule.

    I withdraw your money whenever I want it.

    I like to siphon cash out of you slowly while keeping it fun for myself. A humanATM’s only desire is to get that money exactly where it belongs – in my hands, and in my bank account.

    The instructions are easy to follow. Anticipate my needs at all times

    Payment Methods:

    Ca$happ: @goddessfiestry
    OnlyFans: Fiestry
    LoyalFans: Fiestry

    via RedGIFs

    My Daily Schedule

    I wake up. I shower. I eat.

    $40

    Coffee is essential, and I drink 1 cup every morning.

    $10

    I get a massage at the gym.

    $40 a month.

    I go on a walk. Depending on the day, I may go shopping.

    $40

    Of course, I’ll be driving around. I may have to get gas, or buy a vape, or perhaps I’d like to pick up a treat.

    $60

    Then I go home. What I decide after that depends~

    I may update my blog, create something new and sexy, or spend the rest of the day reading, relaxing, planning the next.

    My life is supposed to be easy.

    You are a cash dispenser, and you’re happy like that. Either way, humanATM’s don’t speak. They deposit. <3